Ask Me Help Desk

Ask Me Help Desk (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forum.php)
-   Pregnancy & New Motherhood (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forumdisplay.php?f=262)
-   -   Periods Come for 2 to 3 days only after having sex. Getting pregnant? (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/showthread.php?t=484558)

  • Jul 1, 2010, 09:46 AM
    aroraasdf
    Periods Come for 2 to 3 days only after having sex. Getting pregnant?
    Hi,
    I am 20 years old and my Gf is 20 as well.
    Last time I had a sex with her before 2 months ago, after that she got her periods on regular date but only for 2-3 days,moreover on next month as well she just got for 2-3 days and that too just few drops but not a regular flow.
    Can any one tell that it is a pregnancy or any other serious Problem..
    Please Help
  • Jul 1, 2010, 09:55 AM
    mrshodges

    Is she on birth control?
  • Jul 1, 2010, 07:09 PM
    aroraasdf
    Comment on mrshodges's post
    Thanks mrshodges,
    No she is not on birth control..
    She haven't done anything after we had sex.
    As I said she didn't got her regular flow.
  • Jul 2, 2010, 06:53 PM
    aroraasdf
    Not regular flow after the sex, Just 2-3 days and few drops. Pregnant?
    Hi to all,
    I am 20 years old an my GF is 20 as well.
    After having sex before 2 months my girlfriend got her first period just for 2-3 days and that
    Too few drops instead of normal flow.
    And further on 2nd month she got periods again on her time but same as first month (2-3 drops and not a regular flow)..
    Additionally she is not on any pill.
    I am concern is she pregnant?
    Please help..
  • Jul 3, 2010, 07:52 PM
    aroraasdf
    Not regular flow after the sex, Just 2-3 days and few drops. Pregnant?please answeru
    Hi to all,
    I have been asking this question from last one week in other catogary but no one answers it.
    Can any one answer this question here?
    I am 20 years old an my GF is 20 as well.
    After having sex before 2 months my girlfriend got her first period just for 2-3 days and that
    Too few drops instead of normal flow.
    And further on 2nd month she got periods again on her time but same as first month (2-3 drops and not a regular flow)..
    Additionally she is not on any pill.
    I am concern is she pregnant?
    Please help..
  • Jul 3, 2010, 08:04 PM
    kp2171
    Irregular flow can happen for many, many reasons.

    Yes... pregnancy is one...

    But the answer is this... nobody here can tell you the Real Answer.

    She might be pregnant. She might not.

    Stress alone can change one's cycle. Illness can. Many things can.

    So... you had sex. She might be pregnant. She might not.

    It really is that simple and that complicated.

    NO DOCTOR would ever rely on what you've posted as proof of pregnancy or to rule out pregnancy. Period.

    So... its a waiting game now.

    I've had more than one experience like yours. Most of the time, it was "just irregularity"... once, it was the fantastic boy I know as my fearless, cute son.

    So... time to hurry and wait.

    A negative pregnancy test doesn't mean not pregnant... it means hormone levels are above the threshold of the test... which means she might be pregnant or not.

    A positive HPT, when done exactly as the test demands, is usually reliable.
  • Jul 3, 2010, 08:18 PM
    CarrotTalker

    I feel kp2171 gave a thorough answer.

    My question for you, what birth control method are you using? Condoms?
  • Jul 3, 2010, 10:55 PM
    Cat1864

    Why does this question sound like a very different situation from the one you described here:
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by aroraasdf View Post
    Hi there,

    I am 20 years old and my gf is 20 as well.
    We both are in love from last 2 years and having sex from last
    7-8 months..
    I have pulled out my penis before sperm comes out with climax
    and droped down sperm on bed.
    We had complete sex like this couple of times, but nothing happend
    like pregnancy or delays in periods...Its all gone normal..

    I want to ask is it still safe to do so??
    Or condom is better option? If yes then why nothing is happend
    when we did unsafe sex..

    Guidence please??

    IF your current question has accurate information, then she needs to see her doctor and get a pregnancy test as well as better birth control.

    When do you leave to go study overseas? I think you both need to keep your clothes on until you know what is going on with her body and you get back from studying overseas. Think of it as practice for when you are apart.
  • Jul 4, 2010, 07:42 AM
    aroraasdf
    Comment on CarrotTalker's post
    Many thanks for answering my question.
    I have used condom once but before it it was unsafe sex.
  • Jul 4, 2010, 07:43 AM
    aroraasdf
    Comment on kp2171's post
    So what should we do now?
  • Jul 4, 2010, 07:48 AM
    aroraasdf
    Comment on Cat1864's post
    Thanks Cat very much,
    I have departed for overseas studies before 2.5 months.
    So are you sure she is pregnant? Or any other reason may can exixt?
    If you are sure enough about pregnancy than please guide me with the rescue steps against pregnancy.(
  • Jul 4, 2010, 08:07 AM
    mrshodges

    She did not say she was pregnant. Please take a pregnancy test. The way to prevent pregnancy is no sex or she needs to be on birth control and you need to use condoms!!
  • Jul 4, 2010, 08:18 AM
    Cat1864

    Quote:

    aroraasdf : Thanks Cat very much, I have departed for overseas studies before 2.5 months. So are you sure she is pregnant? Or any other reason may can exixt? If you are sure enough about pregnancy than please guide me with the rescue steps against pregnancy.(
    I do not know if she is pregnant.

    I do know that she has seen a change in her period and that is a reason to see her doctor. There can be many reasons for the changes including pregnancy, infections, and stress taking its toll on her body, but only her doctor can tell her which one is the real cause.

    She needs to go to the doctor and be honest about everything she is experiencing and the changes she has noticed. She also needs to give the doctor her complete sexual history.
  • Jul 4, 2010, 10:18 AM
    CarrotTalker

    "I have used condom once but before it it was unsafe sex."

    You need to use a condom EVERY TIME you are having sex. Preferably in addition to birth control pills.

  • All times are GMT -7. The time now is 10:38 AM.