Hello,

I've been dating this girl for almost two years now and It's time to call it quits. We are currently living together also with her parents for everyone's own financial reasons. Anyway, I rushed into this relationship after I had broken up with my first love whom I was with for almost three years. In essence, I don't think I ever got over my ex-girlfriend and now I find myself with somebody else, two years later and I can't say I really like her that much.

My girlfriend is deeply in love with me and will put up a huge fight and act, if I try to move out or break up with her. She'll try and call the cops for whatever weird reason, or she won't let me in the house to get my stuff so that I can move out ( yes, I've tried to end things and move out before). I need help on this badly, and I just feel like I need to get all my stuff and leave when she's not home or when she's sleeping. The hard thing is that she depends on me for a lot of things in life and we also share a dog.

- Lonely in a not so grand paradise

Is there ever a time when your girlfriend and her parents are NOT in the house?

Get some of your friends (or a moving company) and go in while they are no there, pack up your stuff and get out of there with you stuff before they even get back.

Aye Aye Captain. Stand and clap. Do it when know one is there. Make sure you only take your things. Not shared things because somebody will try to get something more from you just to get revenge.

I am not sure about packing up behind people's backs unless you are certain they can't make a convincing case of robbery. Give her the dog as a parting gift, pack what you absolutely need to right in front of her and leave. Let them call the cops. Then find a good attorney to pursue getting the rest. Its only stuff, and your priorities seem a little skewed here when its balanced against your whole life and your ability to be happy.

Aye aye, another clap for Val. Yeah Val. Go girl, go girl. I was thinking the same thing about leaving the dog. That would cause more of a war then he would want to deal with if he did that.

Joe

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Originally Posted by venicesacramento

Hello,

I've been dating this girl for almost two years now and It's time to call it quits. We are currently living together also with her parents for everyone's own financial reasons. Anyway, I rushed into this relationship after I had broken up with my first love whom I was with for almost three years. In essence, I dont think I ever got over my ex-girlfriend and now I find myself with somebody else, two years later and I can't say I really like her that much.

My girlfriend is deeply in love with me and will put up a huge fight and act, if I try to move out or break up with her. She'll try and call the cops for whatever weird reason, or she wont let me in the house to get my stuff so that I can move out ( yes, I've tried to end things and move out before). I need help on this badly, and I just feel like I need to get all my stuff and leave when she's not home or when she's sleeping. The hard thing is that she depends on me for a lot of things in life and we also share a dog.

- Lonely in a not so grand paradise

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It sounds to that you have a MAJOR situation on your hands! You need to end it if that is really how she acts when you try to talk to her about it. You need to have some kind of recording device on you or in the house to hear what she says when you do break it off. So that if she does call the police, you'll have proof. Whatever you do, don't lose your cool. But she tries to act an , threaten her with calling the police. She obviously doesn't depend on too much, because you are living with her parents. Break it off, break it off now. I'm sorry you got stuck w/ a psycho!

Leave now!! Before she gets pregnant and puts the real clamps on you.

Tell her you really can't do this anymore because you are in love with someone else... then just get out of there really fast!! And leave the dog... you can get another one!

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Originally Posted by venicesacramento

Hello,

I've been dating this girl for almost two years now and It's time to call it quits. We are currently living together also with her parents for everyone's own financial reasons. Anyway, I rushed into this relationship after I had broken up with my first love whom I was with for almost three years. In essence, I dont think I ever got over my ex-girlfriend and now I find myself with somebody else, two years later and I can't say I really like her that much.

My girlfriend is deeply in love with me and will put up a huge fight and act, if I try to move out or break up with her. She'll try and call the cops for whatever weird reason, or she wont let me in the house to get my stuff so that I can move out ( yes, I've tried to end things and move out before). I need help on this badly, and I just feel like I need to get all my stuff and leave when she's not home or when she's sleeping. The hard thing is that she depends on me for a lot of things in life and we also share a dog.

- Lonely in a not so grand paradise

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Get a cop escourt, I'm serious

You got her sprung!
She's deprite and is
Scared of being longly?
And when girls are
Sprung? Get crazy LOL...

Hell, guys just want to avoid confrontation and so want to sneak away like the pig dog Islamists.
The creative solution would be to hire a young hooker and take her home to girlfriend, introduce the hooker as your sister/half-sister/1st cousin, your transgendered friend/brother/HIV counselor/bipolar-bisexual friend you just met and tell her that you love her so much that you thought it was time to go to the next level and do a 3-way.
It's a Win-Win here - you'll either get yelled at and have a lot of drama (wimmens love a LOT of drama) or you'll get a nice 3-some and maybe break up the boredom/take it to a new level... the possibilities are only as limited as your mind...

Dude, go to her house with a police escort to get your belongings. You be the one that calls the cops. Get your stuff, and get out...

humm sounds like shes physcoOOOoo!
im sorry but LEAVE YO!
take care xoxo