Hi there,

I am 20 years old and my girlfriend is 20 as well.
We both are in love from last 2 years and having sex from last
7-8 months..
I have pulled out my penis before sperm comes out with climax
And droped down sperm on bed.
We had complete sex like this couple of times, but nothing happened
Like pregnancy or delays in periods... Its all gone normal..
I want to ask is it still safe to do so?
Or condom is better option? If yes then why nothing is happened
When we did unsafe sex..
Guidance please?

It is pure luck. Use a condom. Sperm is in pre-. The pull out method is not smart. Sperm travel. She or you could get it on you had a touch and she could get pregnant. Along with condoms she should be on the pill. Ask yourself if you are really ready to be a daddy then go get some protection.

Hello a:

People don't get pregnant every time, but they COULD. Of course, birth control is BETTER than NO birth control. You've been LUCKY so far.

excon

You should use a condom AND she should be on birth control.

Talk about playing Russian roulette...

Yes, pure luck pulling out is not a method, it is a gamble.

Use condoms and birth control

Having condom is very good idea and safe, my suggestion is if you would not like to do same, just avoid to participate in sex after 10 days of her period.

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Originally Posted by mogal777

if you would not like to do same, just avoid to participate in sex after 10 days of her period.

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Hello again,

Following THIS advice is WORSE than pulling out and hoping. She'll get knocked up for SURE.

excon

You know--they have a special name for people that either use the withdrawal method or the rhythm method.

They call those people "Parents".

Do you get your birth control advice from 12 year olds?

Anytime a hand much less a penis can pass a microscopic sperm from him to you.. by touch much less insertion, you can get pregnant.

Like others have already said, you've just been lucky so far.

There are people on this site that got pregnant using 3 different forms of birth control.

Pulling out is not a form of birth control, nor is the rhythm method. If you want to know why, I'm more then happy to explain.

The fact is, even with birth control (condom and the pill) there's still a chance that pregnancy can occur. Every time you have sex, no matter what forum of birth control you're using, there's a chance that she could get pregnant. That's the reality.

The only guarantee to avoid pregnancy is to stop having sex, but, if you plan to continue, at least lower the odds. Use a condom, she should get on the pill.

Good luck.

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Originally Posted by Synnen

You know--they have a special name for people that either use the withdrawal method or the rhythm method.

They call those people "Parents".

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I call them dumb as well. Unless they really WANT a kid... in which case, why are they pulling out.

Get ready to be a daddy if you keep using the "pull out" method. You have just been lucky so far. Sperm has a mind of it's on so put that condom on unless you want to be rocking a baby soon.

Im living proof, my youngest was the result of not using birth control we used the billings method and found out the hard way it doesn't work.

Mind you I wouldn't change my son for the world now, but if you don't want babies then remember this don't be silly put a condom on your willy. And for back up your g/f can go on the pill or 3 month injections.

Sex with BC is not foolproof. Hell, my awesome kid was conceived while cycle tracking and using BC...

That said, withdrawal is a really lousy method of BC. Lets put it this way... if you practice coitus interruptus imprefectly, well, one in about four girls will become pregnant... meaning one in four guys become possibly fathers.

If you practice it "perfectly".. which I find laughable... because one can do it perfectly until it isn't and then it is in the isn't category... its still one in 25...

To put that in perspective, if the chances of dying from brain cancer from cell phone use was anywhere near 1 in 25, they would be federally banned.

But because its just your life and some girls life and maybe some possible kids life, you get to completely ignore all available, affordable, and readily available means of birth control and roll the dice.

Please... wear a flippin' condom. Don't make me beg.

Thanks Kp2171,
I got your answer clearly. I will do as you said..