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  • Jun 29, 2010, 08:18 AM
    aroraasdf
    Pulled out penis before climax couple of times,nothing happen..
    Hi there,

    I am 20 years old and my girlfriend is 20 as well.
    We both are in love from last 2 years and having sex from last
    7-8 months..
    I have pulled out my penis before sperm comes out with climax
    And droped down sperm on bed.
    We had complete sex like this couple of times, but nothing happened
    Like pregnancy or delays in periods... Its all gone normal..
    I want to ask is it still safe to do so?
    Or condom is better option? If yes then why nothing is happened
    When we did unsafe sex..
    Guidance please?
  • Jun 29, 2010, 08:23 AM
    mrshodges

    It is pure luck. Use a condom. Sperm is in pre-. The pull out method is not smart. Sperm travel. She or you could get it on you had a touch and she could get pregnant. Along with condoms she should be on the pill. Ask yourself if you are really ready to be a daddy then go get some protection.
  • Jun 29, 2010, 08:25 AM
    excon

    Hello a:

    People don't get pregnant every time, but they COULD. Of course, birth control is BETTER than NO birth control. You've been LUCKY so far.

    excon
  • Jun 29, 2010, 08:42 AM
    Synnen

    You should use a condom AND she should be on birth control.

    Talk about playing Russian roulette...
  • Jun 29, 2010, 09:47 AM
    Fr_Chuck

    Yes, pure luck pulling out is not a method, it is a gamble.

    Use condoms and birth control
  • Jun 29, 2010, 10:30 AM
    mogal777
    Having condom is very good idea and safe, my suggestion is if you would not like to do same, just avoid to participate in sex after 10 days of her period.
  • Jun 29, 2010, 10:41 AM
    excon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by mogal777 View Post
    if you would not like to do same, just avoid to participate in sex after 10 days of her period.

    Hello again,

    Following THIS advice is WORSE than pulling out and hoping. She'll get knocked up for SURE.

    excon
  • Jun 29, 2010, 11:45 AM
    Synnen

    You know--they have a special name for people that either use the withdrawal method or the rhythm method.

    They call those people "Parents".
  • Jun 29, 2010, 11:49 AM
    smoothy

    Do you get your birth control advice from 12 year olds?

    Anytime a hand much less a penis can pass a microscopic sperm from him to you.. by touch much less insertion, you can get pregnant.
  • Jun 29, 2010, 11:50 AM
    Alty

    Like others have already said, you've just been lucky so far.

    There are people on this site that got pregnant using 3 different forms of birth control.

    Pulling out is not a form of birth control, nor is the rhythm method. If you want to know why, I'm more then happy to explain.

    The fact is, even with birth control (condom and the pill) there's still a chance that pregnancy can occur. Every time you have sex, no matter what forum of birth control you're using, there's a chance that she could get pregnant. That's the reality.

    The only guarantee to avoid pregnancy is to stop having sex, but, if you plan to continue, at least lower the odds. Use a condom, she should get on the pill.

    Good luck.
  • Jun 29, 2010, 11:57 AM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Synnen View Post
    You know--they have a special name for people that either use the withdrawal method or the rhythm method.

    They call those people "Parents".

    I call them dumb as well. Unless they really WANT a kid... in which case, why are they pulling out.
  • Jun 29, 2010, 01:36 PM
    headraccoon

    Get ready to be a daddy if you keep using the "pull out" method. You have just been lucky so far. Sperm has a mind of it's on so put that condom on unless you want to be rocking a baby soon.
  • Jun 29, 2010, 08:32 PM
    positiveparent

    Im living proof, my youngest was the result of not using birth control we used the billings method and found out the hard way it doesn't work.

    Mind you I wouldn't change my son for the world now, but if you don't want babies then remember this don't be silly put a condom on your willy. And for back up your g/f can go on the pill or 3 month injections.
  • Jun 29, 2010, 09:52 PM
    kp2171
    Sex with BC is not foolproof. Hell, my awesome kid was conceived while cycle tracking and using BC...

    That said, withdrawal is a really lousy method of BC. Lets put it this way... if you practice coitus interruptus imprefectly, well, one in about four girls will become pregnant... meaning one in four guys become possibly fathers.

    If you practice it "perfectly".. which I find laughable... because one can do it perfectly until it isn't and then it is in the isn't category... its still one in 25...

    To put that in perspective, if the chances of dying from brain cancer from cell phone use was anywhere near 1 in 25, they would be federally banned.

    But because its just your life and some girls life and maybe some possible kids life, you get to completely ignore all available, affordable, and readily available means of birth control and roll the dice.

    Please... wear a flippin' condom. Don't make me beg.
  • Jul 4, 2010, 07:52 AM
    aroraasdf
    Comment on kp2171's post
    Thanks Kp2171,
    I got your answer clearly. I will do as you said..

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