Okay... well me and my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up two months ago.. we were on and off though but we were on for like 6 months and I love him so much.. I just kept breaking up with him because I didn't want to get hurt again... but I am in the same boat hurt again... he won't talk to me or anything he acts like he doesn't know me but I know he still cares... a month after we broke up he came to my house and we ended up having sex and he hasn't talked to me since I mean I ask him why he done that and he just says I don't know and I don't get it... well like a week ago I went out on a date with a different guy and he is really sweet and really cute but I keep thinking about my ex and I don't know whether to try to get him back or to move on.. so HELP ME.. I NEED ADVISE...
Thanks

Get over it, and move on. He doesn't want to be dumped again, so he doesn't trust you. You can't let your insecurities get in the way of your relationship, and you did. Time to work on those insecurities or this will happen again.

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Originally Posted by TAJD
you dont understand we went out for like 6 months without breaking up and we only broke up bc we got to be fighting and it was a mutual thing but i wont break up with him agian like that i love him so much i just dont know how to let it go and move on i mean he wont get out of my head...there has to be a way...i need someone to talk to that doesnt know me or the situation

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The fact that after 6 months and you have break up fights is a good indication you needed a break. Get your head together after you have calmed down and can think a little clearer. I'm sure others will add to the thread so be patient. And yes I do understand, we all do.

Quite frankily you brought this on yourself with all your insecurites.

He doesn't want/need the drama at all.

What I would advise is stop dating for a while and work on yourself. Work on your confidence. Finish school, work harder at work, just hang with friends - no dating, family, religion, WORKOUT a lot.

Breaking up 6 times is really, really unhealhty.