How I can make her understand
Hi ! All,
I met this girl last Saturday.. before that I used to communicate with her over telephone for around 2 months.. . We live in two different cities.
We had a very nice meeting.. we spend good two days together at her city. I really liked her as a person and proposed her to marry me.. she took quite some time to take a decision but finally agreed... we discussed few future plans and decided to get marry in August.
I am quite an intense person and very verbal in my emotions.. after I came back to my home town.. she got scared with my strong emotions and planning.. Now she is asking me for some time to take a final decision. I do not know what to do.. though it sounds funny that I have fallen in love with her in my first meeting.. but its true..
Please advice me how I can handle the situation.. I am ready to wait till she is convinced.. but I am scared of losing her.
Re: How I can make her understand
Well for one, you are definitely going to have to give her the space she needs, especially seeing as how you've only known each other for a couple of months and you're wanting to get married. You really shouldn't have to worry about losing her if she truly cares for you, so just work with her, and give her whatever time she needs to work everything out. I've never been the best person to give advice, but I've gone through similar things and I found out the hard way how to handle them. Good luck
How I can make her understand
Solid advice Maki,
Yeah, give her time, you guys hardly know each other. What's with wanting to get married so soon anyway? Just because you love her doesn't mean you have to marry her right now or ever, for that matter, does it? Take your time and let the relationship develop. You willl do more harm pressuring her into something than giving her space.