I have boyfriend he sayhe want to marry me but he he call me in 3 or 4 days and he meet me in 15 days only for sex , he don't want to invite me for tiather or dinner or he don't want to give me any gift. When we meet he take me directly to bed we make sex then separate with in the break of sex he told me that I am beautiful and intellagent so he want to marry me. Is he my right hasband?

We can't tell you if he's the right choice for you, that's up to you and you alone.

If you're not comfortable with the way the relationship is going then talk to him, express your concern, make sure he knows how you feel, that you feel he's only using you for sex.

Why are you letting him use you for sex? How long have you two been together? Has he ever taken you out, treated you like a girlfriend and not just a sex toy?

Believe in Gad because only Gad builds a house and talk to him

Hi, marrydave!

It looks as if he's only using you for one thing. Why would you be considering marrying him, please?

Thanks!

It sounds like he sees you as only a booty call, nothing more. Definitely NOT what would make a happy marriage.

Don't have sex with him the next few times you see him... I bet he finds a reason to leave. THat will prove he's only using you for sex.

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Belive in Gad because only Gad builds a house and talk to him

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How old are you? How old is he?

Interesting advice that you are giving yourself. Yes, communicating is very important to ending confusion.

No, this guy is not the right husband for you - not now and not in the future. Look at how you say he treats you - only for sex, no gifts, no dinner, not much of anything of consequence.

I do agree with some of the other comments - stop the sex with this guy and you will find out his real feelings.

Just remember - it costs nothing for him to say you are beautiful (and perhaps you are) and it means nothing to him to say he wants to marry you. Talk is cheap and so is he.

Do not allow him to manipulate you anymore. And good luck.

He is using you.

You are letting him.

If that's what you want in your marriage, it's a perfect fit.

Otherwise... you need to demand more of yourself and for yourself.

But don't expect him to not use you as long as you let him do it...