Ask Me Help Desk - What does he mean?

We go to the same school, we talked and we started going out, I fell in love with him instantly my boyfriend I'll call him (r). He loved me too I became his best friend and he told me evetything, he would tell me to never leave him, and we talked about our future a lot, the my ex boyfrind started talking to me and (r) would tell me that he is jealous, we got into a fight because of that, we then sorted it out and everything went well. But then there is this guy who likes me called(a) he vibes me a lot and (r) kind of gets angry he said that a teacher came up to him and told him that I am a flirt, he got really angry because he said that I lead (A) on, so he shouted at me, and then told me that he would talk to me later, but he went home, that evening I texted him to tell him how I felt about him and he did not reply. Then in school we did not talk for about 4 days then one day he texted me and told me to bring back his chain that he gave me when we started dating, the next day he sent this girl called(s). She is a big flirt especially to (r), and he knows how I feel about her. So he sent (s) to get the stuff from me and this really upset me, so I decided to go and give it to him myself,when I went to confront hm about it he told me that he wants to break up, I begged for him back but he said no and that he needed more time, because what I did really hurt him. And he said that I was a big flirt. A few days later we went for a camping trip and he was there I finally got the courage to go to him and to tell him that I was sorry and that I wanted him back, we talked and he said that he needed more time, he told me that he was confused and he does not want to get hurt again he also said hat he wold not be able to trust me again, he said his feeeling abot me have not changed meaning that he still likes me.then on the bus trip back home he told my friend to move so that he could sit with me, he then started sleeping on me he told me not to worry, and he kept on asking if I hated him, he kept on sitting with me and telling me sweet things, he told me that he wanted to talk and that's what friends do he told me that he would tell me the answer abut our relationship on text that night but he has not texted I'm so confused I don't know what to do if I should move on or not, he is confusing me what is he trying to tell me...

Forget him, sweetheart. He doesn't know what he wants. Leave him to grow up a bit and get on with your own life. Take a look around you there are plenty of guys just dying to meet and get to know you.

Bluerose is right.
He's confused about what he wants, so you should leave him to it and move on. And come on, just because you don't have a boyfriend doesn't mean you SHOULD. A girl without a guy is like a fish without a bicycle.
Hope you find your feet soon.

What's confusing about mistreating you. Move on and forget this rubbish of a man.You should feel insulted that a girl he knows you don't like came to collect his stuff.

Basically, he doesn't know what he wants. But he knows that you want him, so by him treating you this way and you still asking him to be with you, he knows he got you stuck. I know its to hard to just forget about someone you love, so if you don't want to just walk away from this, play the same game he is playing. stop calling him, stop texting him, and stop paying attention to him. If he fades away then you know how he really feels. If he asks you what's up, you know he cares, but don't give in just because its good for a few days. The main key to younger guys is, they don't know what they got until its gone. If you see him in school, say hi and keep walking, don't try to stop and talk. If he loves you like he said he'll realize he made a mistake. And then its up to you to decide if you really want someone who eaither took to long to realize, or that was playing these games in the first place... best of luck, love can be hard.

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Originally Posted by noni_matu

we go to the same school, we talked and we started going out, i fell in love with him instantly my boyfriend i'll call him (r). he loved me too i became his best friend and he told me evetything, he would tell me to never leave him, and we talked about our future alot, the my ex boyfrind started talking to me and (r) would tell me that he is jealous, we got into a fight because of that, we then sorted it out and everything went well. but then there is this guy who likes me called(a) he vibes me alot and (r) kind of gets angry he said that a teacher came up to him and told him that i am a flirt, he got really angry because he said that i lead (A) on, so he shouted at me, and then told me that he would talk to me later, but he went home, that evening i texted him to tell him how i felt about him and he did not reply. then in school we did not talk for about 4 days then one day he texted me and told me to bring back his chain that he gave me when we started dating, the next day he sent this girl called(s). she is a big flirt especially to (r), and he knows how i feel about her. so he sent (s) to get the stuff from me and this really upset me, so i decided to go and give it to him myself,when i went to confront hm about it he told me that he wants to break up, i begged for him back but he said no and that he needed more time, because what i did realy hurt him. and he said that i was a big flirt. a few days later we went for a camping trip and he was there i finally got the courage to go to him and to tell him that i was sorry and that i wanted him back, we talked and he said that he needed more time, he told me that he was confused and he does not want to get hurt again he also said hat he wold not be able to trust me again, he said his feeeling abot me have not changed meaning that he still likes me.then on the bus trip back home he told my friend to move so that he could sit with me, he then started sleeping on me he told me not to worry, and he kept on asking if i hated him, he kept on sitting with me and telling me sweet things, he told me that he wanted to talk and thats what friends do he told me that he would tell me the answer abut our relationship on text that night but he has not texted im so confused i dont know what to do if i should move on or not, he is confusing me what is he trying to tell me...

If he broke up with you just cause you flirt. EVERY girl FLIRTS. He doesn't trust you? You don't need him all he'll do is hurt you again and lie and say you hurt him. Move on and soon he'll want you back then you say I need time. Make him jealous. Right now he is saying he wants to just be friends only nothing more then friends. For now!