My son is an adult alcoholic, what do I do
My son is a very smart , handsome and charismatic young man of 32 who has worked for our family business as he did not finish college and has drifted since he graduated high school. He has no girl friend but is the most friendliest guy you could meet. He has had trouble for at least 10 years and is now in a court order rehab. Facility and has been there 5 months. My concern lays in several areas. Should I do the following? One, he has a 11000.00 income tax bill which I am thinking of paying with his inheritance money. I want that to be the last of bills paid for him as he needs to stand on his own feet when he returns to society and he will need to work for everything else. Two, his father does not think he his an alcoholic problem but I do. Should I go alone to the al-lon meetings? I was hoping we could go together, as we both want to support our son. I need to be prepared when my son is out of rehab. What do I need to do to be ready?
Thank you for your help.