Go into a relashionship where she's in love, and I'm possible not?
I'm a 23 year old virgin guy.
In my entire life, I been in-love two times. Both times was a very strong feeling in me, but unfortunately, unrequited love. I was never luck/able to build something out of it.
Now, I've encountered a new and different situation. A girl I'm friends with (1year) told me she loved me from a first time she saw me. She has a boyfriend (5y), and thing haven't been great between them, supposedly started going down-hill when she met me. She tried to breakup with him already (3/4 times) but he always encourage her to try to fix things (on the basis of they don't know what wrong).
The thing is, I don't know how I feel about her. I like her, more than a friend... not sure how much more. Maybe because I had the lack of experience I letting me go, and we already made-out. Felt amazing the fist times, but now it launches this dilemma in my mind (do I like her enough? Is attraction enough?). We haven't had sex because I didn't want to be a cheater of sorts. But on top of it, I think she likes me in a way I can't top. She tells me she loves me and wants to be with me forever, but don't know why, I don't/still don't feel that way. Love is said to be a capability and not an emotion, and perhaps the way I feel is really what is supposed to be in such a early stage. Maybe because of those "unrequited love" times I had, when I was "madly in-love" (limerence) I expect something similar...
Its like having what I ever want (girl who loves me, attracted to me, wanting to be with me), but now knowing if I deserve it. I always thought of her like a friend... and now, she want to do *everything* with me.
Do you think I should go with the flow, and find out where this can go? Do you think I should just tell her that, and risk losing such good thing?