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  • Jun 25, 2010, 06:56 AM
    babyblue1981
    Relationships
    How can you establish trust in a relationship if your prevouis relationships was full of distrussed.

    HOw do you trust one another when you love them so bad but still worries that they can't be trusted?
  • Jun 25, 2010, 07:24 AM
    talaniman

    The best way is to be fully healed properly from the last relationship, and have all the baggage from it unpacked and everything put away.

    How long had you been single after your break up that has you feeling this way?

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregna...en-480711.html

    Realize that you are with another person now, and maybe your fears and insecurities over being pregnant have you wondering about the wrong things, and that in itself needs to be coped with.

    How long have you been with the new guy? Cope with your feelings in a mature way and start by protecting yourself from pregnancy. I think the fear is a very real factor in how you are feeling about yourself.
  • Jun 25, 2010, 12:29 PM
    Cat1864

    You have to trust yourself. Trust your judgement and instincts. If you keep questioning your own thoughts and feelings, it is very hard NOT to question someone else's.

    If you aren't sure what another person means, ask for claification. The meanings you put to their words and actions may not be the way they meant for them to understood.

    Don't immediately jump to conclusions if something out of the 'ordinary' happens. There are still mis-dialed phone numbers and cell phones do break/lose signal/just get plain weird.

    Accept that you cannot control the other person any more than that person can control you.

    Communicate with the other person.

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