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  • Jun 23, 2010, 02:13 PM
    troublemakerman
    Why I go to Bereavement Groups
    Why I go to bereavement groups

    I had a loss in my life
    I lost a mother and also a wife

    It hurts so badly when people die and they are gone
    I was told a bereavement group might help me to move on

    We sit and we talk about our lost love
    How we miss them and we know they’re in the heavens above

    We all can come together because of the pain we all share
    We can relate to each other with passion and how much we care

    Talking about the past, which now is a memory in our life
    Were not sure of our future that will be for the rest of our life

    We now have large changes in our life
    Someone may have lost a parent, a child, a sibling, a husband or a wife

    It’s our group that knows our loss and our pain
    At times our friends or family might think were not sane

    Someone may say something that would bring us to smile
    That’s something that happens every once in a while

    We try to get by the sorrow
    If not today then maybe tomorrow

    Maybe after time and lots of tears
    Just maybe we might find another love that cares
  • Jun 24, 2010, 12:43 PM
    JudyKayTee

    I don't see a question here - I see creative writing, perhaps a topic for discussion.

    I also lost my spouse. Your posting does not help me.

    I have requested that it be moved.
  • Jun 24, 2010, 09:53 PM
    Clough
    Hi, troublemakerman!

    Another nice poem by you! I like the way that you express yourself!

    I too, like to work things out that trouble me by doing something artistic!

    Perhaps these sort of writings might have a better home in one of the forums devoted to writing and literary subjects like the Writing forum topic area?

    Thanks!
  • Jun 25, 2010, 08:08 AM
    troublemakerman

    Yes I goofed, Judy wants to get it moved, that's OK. Thank's for the compliment.
  • Jun 25, 2010, 09:11 AM
    Fr_Chuck

    Nice poem, ( that was it right ?)

    And I don't have a problem with it staying here, it may help others that read it and are missing someone, I had two wives pass away, and in last couple years had to deal with my mom and dad passing. Pain and grief are mourned and gotten over differently by each of us, how I deal with it, is not how you deal with it.

    Groups are great, if we learn to move on and not just keep letting the group keep the wound and pain open

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