We have been together for a year, in few months now. We can talk on the phone for five minutes, and she's already mad at me and wants to get off the phone with me, saying she is getting cranky!

Well I got worried, I don't know what else to do but I went and looked in her phone, and saw where she had talked to her EX boyfriend for over 2 and a half hours.

I try to give her what she wants in needs, but I feel like I am not enough for her anymore and it hurts really bad. I have turned my back on every one to make her happy, and I am still not good enough.

Which leads me to my next question. I let her go out last week to play a sport with one of her guy friends, and now she's been so hatefully toward me since, telling me she is unhappy with me, and she'll never be happy in I ask her if its because of me, and she won't give me a direct answer, and she's been talking about her guy friend a lot here lately!!

Please anybody what should I do? I have fallen in love with this girl, but I feel like I am not good enough for her anymore. WHAT DO I DO?

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Almost sounds like she wants an out if she is talking to other guys and then getting more moody with you.

Seriously consider if this relationship and this type of person is what you want in your life. When she acts hatefully, you should end the relationship. She will probably launch a counter-attack about how "insecure" or "controlling" you are, which is simply her way of trying to weasel out of responsibility for the situation. If she does that, do not even argue with her, just say, I'm sure if the tables were turned, you would be upset too. Have a nice life.

This is not love my friend and you get your dignity and self respect back by kicking her to the curb, and getting your life back. She is not worth being good too, nor does she appreciate it.

So instead of getting a direct answer from her tell HER directly you ain't about HER BS anymore, and disappear from her life.

Talaniman Rule- Stay away from any one that has an ex involved in their lives.

Talaniman Rules-Never assume that your feelings are shared by any one else.

Talaniman Rule - Never ever get to close to a person that has a committed partner in their lives.

Talaniman Rule-Never follow your heart when it's so broken, it makes the brain feel like mush

Talaniman Rule- Let them pay for the consequences of their bad behavior, not you. *

*NOTE_ Applies to any bad behavior.

Talaniman Rule- If one female isn't available, there are millions that are. Don't get stuck on one who is BUSY with other things.

Talaniman Rule - Don't miss other opportunities and options because your stuck on someone who is not as stuck on you, thats just plain crazy.

Talaniman Rule- Don't play games with your heart, and don't let somebody else play games with it either.

Talaniman Rule-Love yourself enough to never allow any one to treat you badly. If they do, LEAVE.

Talaniman Rule- When you see a brick wall, don't go head first into it, and expect to get on the other side.

Talaniman Rule- Never get so carried away by feelings that you can't see the facts.

Talaniman Rule- Never get so wrapped up with wanting something, when you know you can't have it.

Talaniman Rule - If you can't treat them like you want to be treated, don't mess around with them.

Talaniman Rule- When you allow bad behavior, you will get it.

Read these rules CAREFULLY, and act ACCORDINGLY.

Quit putting yourself down - the problem isn't that you aren't good enough for her, the problem is her.

Don't allow her to treat you like crap - take your pride and move on... she's just not "the one" for you.

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I think my girlfriend hates me

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I think you're right. I think she doesn't respect you either.

I think all relationships between under 25`s should be deemed temporary or practice runs, at least then most youngsters would know what's what, it could redundant people like us though.
LOL...

Were we like the youngsters of today?? Youth . The joys and pains of youth...

I doubt she hates you just not swimming in love hearts.. .

See above post memorise it, it helps. Really it does...

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Originally Posted by talaniman

This is not love my friend and you get your dignity and self respect back by kicking her to the curb, and getting your life back. She is not worth being good too, nor does she appreciate it.

So instead of getting a direct answer from her tell HER directly you ain't about HER BS anymore, and disappear from her life.

Talaniman Rule- Stay away from any one that has an ex involved in their lives.

Talaniman Rules-Never assume that your feelings are shared by any one else.

Talaniman Rule - Never ever get to close to a person that has a committed partner in their lives.

Talaniman Rule-Never follow your heart when it’s so broken, it makes the brain feel like mush

Talaniman Rule- Let them pay for the consequences of their bad behavior, not you. *

*NOTE_ Applies to any bad behavior.

Talaniman Rule- If one female isn't available, there are millions that are. Don't get stuck on one who is BUSY with other things.

Talaniman Rule - Don't miss other opportunities and options because your stuck on someone who is not as stuck on you, thats just plain crazy.

Talaniman Rule- Don't play games with your heart, and don't let somebody else play games with it either.

Talaniman Rule-Love yourself enough to never allow any one to treat you badly. If they do, LEAVE.

Talaniman Rule- When you see a brick wall, don't go head first into it, and expect to get on the other side.

Talaniman Rule- Never get so carried away by feelings that you can't see the facts.

Talaniman Rule- Never get so wrapped up with wanting something, when you know you can't have it.

Talaniman Rule - If you can't treat them like you want to be treated, don't mess around with them.

Talaniman Rule- When you allow bad behavior, you will get it.

Read these rules CAREFULLY, and act ACCORDINGLY.

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These could be turned into a stickie, LOL.

Read them boys and girls, you know it makes sense...

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These could be turned into a sticky.

Read them boys and girls, you know it makes sense....

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Had to spread the love positiveparent.

But I couldn't agree more , there definitely should be a "Talaniman's Rules" Sticky IMO.

Get to it Tal ;)

Thanks every one I do appreciate the comments I try I really do I try so hard for her it hurts me this has been going on for a week now in I am starting to get pail today I was stranded 10mins away from her but before I could tell her she said she wanted to hang out with her ex for a few but didn't because she didn't want to fight with me? But after she found out I was stuck at a gas station she said she not only wouldn't come get me because she is really tired etc blah blah blah so I had to hitch a ride to a friends house in then she calls me up to tell me she needs some body in because I am not there she wants her EX to take her some where so she can get her something in I said I really would not like that, In she said I need some one to comfort me I said well I wanted to be there but you wouldn't come get me even though I offered her gas money in she turned it around in said well its not my fault that your not here you should have went off in not have a ride back it hurt me so bad in my family tells me I should leave her but its so hard to because I really wanted this to work I really did why can't this be easy in I be happy with her she is my real first love so I want to try in keep what the heart wants but I don't know what else to do?? HELP ME

You can't keep her. She doesn't want to be kept. She wants to be free range.

Basically what everyone is saying is true. She is no good for you. She doesn't deserve you.

Go find a girl who will appreciate what you do for her and wll do it in return. She might be your first love but she won't be your last!

Her leaving you stranded or semi stranded at a gas station shows exactly who she cares about and its her and only her, that was a callous and heartless thing to do to anyone, let alone an ex b/f.

You know what I would say let her Ex have her because you are worth more than she has, don't let her play you, change your number and go NC, and in time you'll realise that you've done the right thing.

Don't look for reasons there are none only that she is taking you for a first class mug, sorry if that hurts but its true.

Never love anyone who doesn't love you back, it's a ticket to hell...

No matter how bad you may feel right now, that too will pass, and whatever hurts us most makes us stronger...