Okayy, welll I'm 15 years old, my boyfriend is 17. We have been dating for 2 months now, and lately he has been talking to my best friend, & not just a little, a lot ! I got onto his myspace the other night to do something, and I noticed him and her had been talking on i.m. He had gotten off work at 10 and right when he got home he got online & i.m-ed her. At the time I got on, it was 12, and they had been talking for 2 hours, & he hadn't even bothered to text me or try to talk to me by that time. I started reading their conversation, and he was sitting there telling her to hang out with me & him Friday(he had asked me a few days before to hang out on Friday). & now he is inviting her to hang out with us. I had then texted him, & he was being short with me, & then he started telling me that my best friend had made his day. Well I then started arguing with him because he hadn't even cared to talk to me, so then he started ignoring me & would not talk to me for nothing. Well I had kept reading their conversation & he was asking how did her boyfriend get her and stufff. Well I got off & the next day his password had been changed & I never found out what else they talked about. I never know if they text or not, because they do have each others numbers. I'm scared to go through his phone, I don't want to be one of those girlfriends that are nosy & stufff. Also a month into our relationship , my best friends & her boyfriend had broken up & got back together & my boyfriend found out while I was at her house & me and him were on the phone, and he asked to talk to her , and they talked for like 10 minutes(everytime I'm with her & happen to be on the phone with him He always ask to talk to her for a minute). He told me that she was to cute to be going out with her boyfriend(her boyfriend isn't the cutest boy) . I just don't know what to think ? Please someone help me out here *

I Really need advice on what to do, or what I should think ?
Please , telllll me (:

I think you need to talk to your friend and ask her to back off, maybe she doesn't know what he's doing.

Also I think you may need to prepare yourself for him going onto another girl.

At 17 boys and girls are fickle they're mostly playing at the dating game until such time as they are more mature and find the one they want to spend their life with.

Find something to keep your mind off him, he may then take more notice of you...

Hes probably enjoying all the attention from you and your friend, so don't give it to him.

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Find something to keep your mind off him, he may then take more notice of you...

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I've been trying to do that, but I have nothing to help me keep my mind off him & it just makes me want to text him or something & I can HONESTLY say I don't have the will power for that .
So how do I do that ?

What does your friend say about all this talking behind your back? She seems to give him a lot of attention, and that's who you talk to first, and then him. Get facts before you go crazy from assuming, presuming, and wondering.