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  • Jun 21, 2010, 03:48 PM
    aleeyafgy
    There is this guy that I love but we live in different states
    There is this guy that I love but we live in differnent states oky you know how you parents said not to talk to anyone online that you don't no well I didn't listin and I meat him on this website name imvu and we talk everyday and we understand each other and stuff he is not like any of the other jerks I no he said he loves me and looks don't matter and I love him to we both want go out but the distance is stoping us because we both don't want date online because what if it dose not work out with us and then I lose a good guy frind and a lover too so what shuld I do.
  • Jun 21, 2010, 03:58 PM
    Lucky098

    You should turn the computer off and meet a real live person.
  • Jun 21, 2010, 04:00 PM
    aleeyafgy

    I do actully a lot only onec in a couple of days I go on the computer. I just need help shuld I stop talking to him or countine talking to him so I can have a frind because its not like we will go out we live in two sparte worlds oky
  • Jun 21, 2010, 04:05 PM
    Wondergirl

    How are are you and this guy?
  • Jun 21, 2010, 04:23 PM
    aleeyafgy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    How are are you and this guy?

    Um 14 and 15 I no your going to say we don't no what love is
  • Jun 21, 2010, 04:29 PM
    Wondergirl

    No, I'm not. Your spelling is so bad, I figure you are about 7 or 8. And, by the way, texting is not allowed on this site.

    What about filling your time this summer by reading books, playing games outdoors, doing chores for your mom, putting together jigsaw puzzles, and pulling weeds in the yard instead of sitting immobile in a stuffy house in front of a computer?
  • Jun 21, 2010, 04:34 PM
    aleeyafgy

    Your saying I should just forget about him
  • Jun 21, 2010, 04:48 PM
    Wondergirl

    Will I be helping you if I give you full permission to be on the computer and chat with guys who may be, in reality, older men looking for sweet, young girls to have some fun with?

    You have absolutely NO idea whom you are talking with on the Internet. I have been surfing and chatting and a member of various Internet communities since 1998. Ask me anything.
  • Jun 21, 2010, 04:54 PM
    aleeyafgy

    Oky I understand that. But what if he is not one those guys. And to me he seems like he is my age because of the way we talk so is he or not
  • Jun 21, 2010, 05:01 PM
    friend4u178
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    He could be this guy , scary isn't it ;)









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  • Jun 21, 2010, 05:10 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by aleeyafgy View Post
    oky I understand that. But what if he is not one those guys. And to me he seems like he is my age because of the way we talk so is he or not

    Older men who hang out on youth and chat websites are very good at sounding like they are your age and have similar interests to yours. Yes, your Internet "friend" may be who he says he is, but maybe he isn't. Along the way, you will want to reveal personal information about yourself and where you live, and that might be a very dangerous thing to do.


    Quote:

    Originally Posted by aleeyafgy
    I only go on the computer on sundays and fridays

    Only on Sundays and Fridays.
    Quote:

    we talk everyday
    Okay. Which is it -- twice a week or every day? Lying to us doesn't help your cause.

    You see how easy it is to lie online. Your "friend" may be doing the same thing to you.
  • Jun 21, 2010, 05:23 PM
    aleeyafgy

    Um oky I see we talk twice a week now before it use to be everyday but we stop


    Um oky is there any questions I can ask him to see if he is lying to me or anything and if he is my age or what or no
  • Jun 21, 2010, 05:26 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by aleeyafgy View Post
    um oky is there any questions i can ask him to see if he is lieing to me or anything and if he is my age or what or no

    Nope! There is nothing you can do to find out the truth. I suggest you listen to what your mother told you and obey her.
  • Jun 21, 2010, 05:29 PM
    aleeyafgy

    Oky thanks for your help
  • Jun 21, 2010, 05:30 PM
    friend4u178
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by aleeyafgy View Post
    um oky is there any questions i can ask him to see if he is lieing to me or anything and if he is my age or what or no

    Seriously why even bother. The fact is there are thousands upon thousands of internet stalkers all over the world. This guy could even be an old pervert living near you and spying on you.

    Why not just go out with friends and your bound to meet a nice available guy when the time is right.
  • Jun 21, 2010, 05:38 PM
    aleeyafgy

    Oky
  • Jun 21, 2010, 05:40 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by aleeyafgy View Post
    oky

    (It's spelled "okay.")

    Are there other kids your age living near you or opportunities to get together with others during the summer through your church or school?
  • Jun 21, 2010, 05:45 PM
    Clough
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by friend4u178 View Post
    He could be this guy , scary isn't it ;)









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    Is that you, M? LOL! :p
  • Jun 21, 2010, 05:52 PM
    Clough
    Hi, aleeyafgy!

    If you click on my name, you can go and read my profile, if you would like to. Everything in my profile is verifiable and true. That means that people can know that I am who I say that I am.

    Some of us who are members on this site, have spoken with each other on the phone as well as gone to visit each other in person.

    Even at my age, I wouldn't even consider calling someone on the phone that I met online, let alone going to visit them, unless I was absolutely sure of who and what they were.

    Thanks!
  • Jun 24, 2010, 04:05 PM
    aleeyafgy
    Can you tell me if this is good or not
    My love for you is so hard to describe but I want you to know
    How I really feel about you I think it's time you should know.
    If I could have just one wish,
    I would wish to wake up everyday
    To the sound of your breath on my neck,
    The warmth of your lips on my cheek,
    The touch of your fingers on my skin,
    And the feel of your heart beating with mine...
    Knowing that I could never find that feeling
    With anyone other than you.

    When you tell me you love me I get this kind of feeling
    That I never got with any other guy that I know.
    That feeling is like so hard to describe but I will try
    For you, it's like butterflies in my stomach flying all over
    In my stomach and then this big smile comes on my face just
    To know that you love me too and you care for me.
    I know you're not by my side but I feel like you are when we talk
    And the way I talk to you it's like I can tell you anything hoping that
    You will understand and you that's one thing I love abut you if need
    Help with something you try your best to help and plus you actually
    Listening to me not like all the other guys I know.
    Love is the greatest feeling,
    Love is like a song,
    Love is what I feel for you,
    Every day,
    Love is like a smile,
    Love is a great emotion,
    That keeps us going strong,
    I love you with my heart,
    My body and my soul,
    I love the way I keep loving,
    Like a love I can't control,
    So remember when I first started to talk to you,
    I love you with all my heart,
    And I have poured my entire soul into you,
    Right from the very start.
    That's how my love is but there is more and more feels every
    Day that I know you.


    I wrote this for a guy that I love can you guys tell me if I am missing anything or it is good.

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