I'm 13 and have known this girl for two years. We've become close friends and have lots of fun together. She flirts a lot with everyone but that didn't stop how I felt. Then I discovered that she liked guys 3-6 years older.

It hurts when I'm not with her and I feel like where really close. I've had crushes before but this feels very special.

I smile when she smile's, cry when she cries and hurt when she hurts.

She's been out with this older boy for about 4 months and seems pretty happy but I told her how I feel. She replied saying she felt exactly how I feel and is completely in love with me but also like's this boy and she says it would work when she's sing.le

I know how we can like loads of different people at this age and relationship's can last a short period but I really love her! I don't think my heart can take just forgetting her.

I know she knows exactly how I feel but I don't know what to do in case she stays with this boys for a long time. Help :( ?

You don't know how much older he is than her? If he's even Three years older than her it's a bad sign, he's probably a creep. If she feels how you feel then she would be with you, not him. She's using you as a back-up plan because being with the older boy is cooler.

Also, I think that you should tell an adult. They will keep who told confidential but the thing is, with the difference of age and being so young, he has no business being with her. TELL AN ADULT. Keep her safe. If you really care about her that's what you should do.

How old id she?