I love some one who is less rich then us. We got married before 1 year. My father doesn't know that. Except for him, every one of our both family know this. Now father says that if my father-in-law will give me 25 bighs of land, then he will acccept our relationship. I'm in a great problem in fact my husband is also thoughtful about this. I'm feeling very bad I can't say anything more then this. I request everyone who is reading my article please pray for us. We need your help.

I'm sorry that your father doesn't want to accept this. Have you tried explaining to him that you love your husband and that your not leaving him? Me and my mother have had some dissagreements about guys the way I handled it is buy just simply telling her that it is my life to live and if I'm happy then why can't she be happy for me and she still kept pushing that I leave him that pushed me over the edge so I quit talking to her for about 3 months then when I finally started talking to her again she came around I told her that she would have to accept my discions or leave me alone I told her that I loved her more than anything but she had to let me grow up and make my own discions whether she liked them or not I know it sounds mean but its tough love hope this helps

He will most likely be years and years forgiving, esp if you went behind his back and got married and have not told him.

How are you living as man and wife and he not know it ?

I don't see a question here.

Your father will accept him, under a payment of sorts, of land.

You say you cannot say anything, and it is up to your husband to negotiate something between both your fathers.

I don't know what to tell you, because this seems to be out of your hands entirely.

All I can say really is that I hope all the men involved here settle on something so that you can stop worrying.

Good luck.

I suspect he knows, and I am unsure how much land 25 bighs is, but maybe a settlement can be reached. I certainly see that as your way out. The fathers reaching agreement. Maybe they should talk. He may of set the price high purposely because he knows they cannot meet such a demand. Sooner or later the truth will come out, if it hasn't already. Maybe your mother can influence him, if she hasn't tried already.

You have my prayers.