Okay so I'm 18 male and I masturbate probably 5 times or more per day, once I masturbated 10 times... is this normal? Or do I just crave sex like a lot... I also masturbate with really fast motions but often of those times it takes me over an hour to actually ejaculate, is it cause I am not sensitive.. And for those who ask if its true well yes its true, and for sex it can take me 4 hours in bed, with the girl not including fourplay and that's for an average... the most quick in bed was 30 minutes, and the longest 7 hours god what a night :P but these are all at the same rhythm so yeah..

You need to get a new hobby as this is EXCESSIVE!

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Originally Posted by doplar

okay so im 18 male and i masturbate probably 5 times or more per day, once i masturbated 10 times... is this normal ?? or do i just crave sex like a lot... i also masturbate with really fast motions but often of those times it takes me over an hour to actually ejaculate, is it cause i am not sensitive... ? and for those who ask if its true well yes its true, and for sex it can take me 4 hours in bed, with the girl not including fourplay and thats for an average...the quickest in bed was 30 minutes, and the longest 7 hours god what a night :P but these are all at the same rythm so yeah ..

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Too much of anything is not a good thing.

Overworking yourself will desensitize it (as the reason you take up to an hour by yourself sometimes,and up to 4 hours in bed with partners)

Yes,at your age,sex was on my mind every 2 minutes, either a sexual picture(image) in my mind,a sexual fantasy,the wind blowing a scent of a girl,etc...

Self control, discipline,believing that too much is too much.

Next time it's 'touch time' ,just say no,do something else.If you need to release later,do so.

Then the next time,say no,and hold off as long as it is possible, train yourself that thinking about sexual gratification doesn't mean the act.it can be pleasurable mentally,just give your member a break.

No,no one is superman, we all have to find some release,at your age,most of the males I knew (although they wouldn't have admitted it then),were in the same boat as you.But in time,MOST(not all),learned that anything in excess is not a good thing,the body just says no more.and the pleasure looses it's edge.

A healthy libido isn't a bad thing,but in excess.. it is.

This in fact very excessive. And I am a person that has always had a high libido.

I suggest you talk to a counceler about this.. as it is clearly an obsessive act.

Do you work, do you go to school? When do you find that much time for doing that?

It sounds a bit much to me. Why do you feel you have to masturbate every time you get an itch?

18 year old sex was long.. haha

After a few years it'll drop down to 15 min or 30 on special occasions. Haha!

Anyway.. you seem bored. Get a job, go volunteer, do something other than choking your jimmy.

Yes I think you are way to excessive

Well first 5 times, taking hours, ( sorry not that many hours in a day, if you work or go to school.

But yes it is excessive and will ruin your ability to have normal sexual relationship with another partner.

If it has become an addiction you need to get professional help

I am not on the same page here with every one else. I don't think it's excessive. I mean, does it stop you from going out and doing things? Are you talking about doing this 7 times a day EVERY day? You sound like a normal 18 year old boy to me.

You will become used to your own hand, and it may make things a bit (excuse the pun) harder to ejaculate, and from what I have read, it can make you de sensitized.

I do agree with too much of anything can be a bad thing, but I honestly don't see this as weird or not normal. And I went from having a VERY high libido to a very LOW libido, to evening out now. But you, I think you're okay.

If you stop choking it so hard and fast so often, it probably won't take so long when you are with a real partner.

I say "what the hell?" I don't see any problem with this. Your hobby is just different than most people.

Sounds to me like he needs to get a life.
I mean 18. Don't you have things to do, people to relate to?

Sounds to me he's found a new plaything or toy maybe, LOL

Masturbation is fine but like everything else in moderation, which means not letting it be the main pastime in your life, you're 18 go out more meet up with your friends, and masturbate later, you've got all your life to play around with it, you don't want to wear it out now do you.!

You are doing it way too much. The more times you do it the longer you will do it in bed, and since your hand can get a better grip on your penis than a girls vagina, it might not be as sensitive to her touch and it makes you last a lot longer. I really don't think I could have sex for 7 hours. I would die by that time, but kudos to you I guess. You said you have had sex, so why don't you at least have sex more than you masturbate? If not do that then find something more to occupy your time, Go to college or get a job, good luck.

If you have had sex with a partner before, then why are you going solo so often? And do you have a job? Do you stay at home all day, and do this there? Or do you sneak off, wherever you are?

Are you taking any drugs? Street or prescribed?

There is nothing wrong with masturbation, in moderation. If this "hobby" is keeping you from having normal interaction with others, and keeping you from being employed, then it's a problem.

Get out and go live your life.