Ok so I used to date this guy named Ryan. We had an on and off relationship and the final time I ended it was cause of him flirting with his frieds which are girls. And every time we broke up for a week he dated my best friend. (oh you we dated for 4 months) so now he wants me back and is claming that he loves me. What do I do?

Leave him alone. A guy who goes after your best friend isn't worth it. How old are you?

Forget him, if he flirts and then goes off with your best friend then he's not the one to be wasting your time on.

I too wonder how old you are.

This guy flirts with other girls and goes after your best friend. Is your "best friend" still your friend after she has dated your boy friend?
Lose them both.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

This guy flirts with other girls and goes after your best friend. Is your "best friend" still your friend after she has dated your boy friend?
Lose them both.

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New friends and definitely stay away from the boy.

I have had many difficult relationships. After 4months if he was genuinely in love with you he wouldn't even think about another girl in that way. The first signs of love are confusion but if you loved someone you wouldn't go somewhere else to realize that.
Some men think women are easy that way by trying to tap into how a woman feels. Far do's woman fall for it most of the time. You have to see through the reason why?
What are you giving him that he has been using i.e. maybe a home, money, a distraction? There's always something they hang onto.
Because darling I'm not trying to upset you but relationships are very hard, If he loved you he would not be doing something he knows will hurt you.

Tell him about how it makes you feel but not too much just enough so he gives an honest answer. You will know.