Ok... so I am dating this guy that I really like, might even love. I have known him for about a year and a half, two years now. We have been dating for about 6 months now. Everyone tells me that we make a really cute couple, and that we are so good together. Problem is, this other guy that I have known for ever just told me that he likes me (he doesn't know that I am dating this other guy) and asked me to be his girlfriend. I told him I would have to think about it, because I didn't have an answer for him. I don't know what to do because I think that I am in love with both of them... somebody HELP me!

Back away from the situation. Don't lead either guy on. You already said that you've known each of them for 2 years or more.

Clear your mind without either of them influencing your thought process. By backing away from both of them, you will feel more objective about your feelings. Once you've figured out what you want, then cut the other one loose and stick to one.

Your boyfriend must not mean much to you or you wouldn't be denying his existence. If you really cared for him you would have spoke up and told the new guy that you were already taken.

I think it's best for you to move away from both of them until you get your own act together.

The proper thing to have done would have been to be honest with this other guy, and tell him you have a boyfriend already.

You didn't, and that makes you a liar to your long time friend.

Some friend you are, and some lousy girlfriend, that you are willing to lie to keep another guy on a string behind your boyfriends back.

If these are good guys, they both deserve better than a fickle, liar for a partner.

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Originally Posted by Mae_8091

Ok....so I am dating this guy that I really like, might even love.!

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Nope , you don't treat someone you Love like that. If you loved him you wouldn't even had had to think before telling this other guy you already had a boyfriend.

K I have had this happen to me, and I am with a guy but loves another one. But really you just make your heart show you the path,if that does not work see what guy is cute, nice and allways there for you, I hope this worksthanks and bye. ( and its not about if he is cute think about his ways to you)

Bye