Ask Me Help Desk - He likes me, I like him, he won't ask me out!

All right, sammy and I started talking and I like him and he likes me, he is so flirty and he told my close friend buddy he likes me, and everyone keeps asking me if him and I are talking. Everyone says we would be cute together. He wants me to come over, and do "stuff"- he is perverted in a way, but I don't mind (all guys are around the age of 14) and he is calling me pretty and asking for appropriate pictures. He hant had a girlfriend in about a year... I don't know what is holding him back. He is shy, we have known each other for 9 years, but we haven't really talked much until now. HELP ME! What are some hints I can give him to ask me out? And what's your opinion on this?

You are underage to have sex,and although you don't say that in your post, the use of the word 'stuff' in the context of your post would suggest something of a sexually nature.

If 'sammy' liked you he would be showing you some respect,not looking to do 'stuff' or looking for pictures,who cares if people think you would be cute together,this boy does not want to hold your hand,and what starts as 'stuff' can easily end up as sex,and that is where it all goes down hill.

He's looking for a girl who will give him something,do you want to be that girl so he can tell his friends?

If you want to be friends with him,just hang out together,if he likes you,he'll be happy just to spend time in your company.

Respect your own body,because 14 year old boys who want to do 'stuff' won't.

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Originally Posted by louray17

alright, sammy and i started talking and i like him and he likes me, he is so flirty and he told my close friend buddy he likes me, and everyone keeps asking me if him and i are talking. everyone says we would be cute together. he wants me to come over, and do "stuff"- he is perverted in a way, but i dont mind (all guys are around the age of 14) and he is calling me pretty and asking for appropriate pictures. he hant had a gf in about a year... idk what is holding him back. he is shy, we have known eachother for 9 years, but we havent really talked much until now. HELP ME!! what are some hints i can give him to ask me out? and whats your opinion on this??

I am not worried about stuff though lol I am 14 and he hasn't mentioned that, he only mentioned it once. We are just talking flirty and all now, I know he likes me and he knows I like him so why won't he make a move? That's MY CONCERN!!

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Originally Posted by redhed35

you are underage to have sex,and although you dont say that in your post, the use of the word 'stuff' in the context of your post would suggest something of a sexually nature.

if 'sammy' liked you he would be showing you some respect,not looking to do 'stuff' or looking for pictures,who cares if people think you would be cute together,this boy does not want to hold your hand,and what starts as 'stuff' can easily end up as sex,and that is where it all goes down hill.

hes looking for a girl who will give him something,do you want to be that girl so he can tell his friends?

if you want to be friends with him,just hang out together,if he likes you,he'll be happy just to spend time in your company.

respect your own body,because 14 year old boys who want to do 'stuff' wont.

But I am not worried about stuff though lol I am 14 and he hasn't mentioned that, he only mentioned it once. We are just talking flirty and all now, I know he likes me and he knows I like him so why won't he make a move? That's MY CONCERN!!

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Originally Posted by louray17

i am not worried about stuff tho lol i am 14 and he hasnt mentioned that, he only mentioned it once. we are just talking flirty and all now, i know he likes me and he knows i like him so why wont he make a move?! THATS MY CONCERN!!!!

Maybe he is shy,but I doubt it if he has mentioned 'stuff',maybe he is checking to see if you will talk to him.

Just talk to him,its not about making a move,its hard being a teenager,because you want to fit in and you don't want to come across as different,he might be afraid you will laugh at him or make fun of him,just talk to him,see if he responds,take it slowly and decide for yourself if he is a nice boy.

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Originally Posted by redhed35

maybe he is shy,but i doubt it if he has mentioned 'stuff',maybe he is checking to see if you will talk to him.

just talk to him,its not about making a move,its hard being a teenager,because you want to fit in and you dont want to come across as differant,he might be afraid you will laugh at him or make fun of him,just talk to him,see if he responds,take it slowly and decide for yourself if he is a nice boy.

Thanks :)