OK so I'm not sure what it is about, but for some reason I keep giving excuses to myself and my friends why ican't talk to a girl they ask me to talk to. I told them I would talk to any girl but I keep making excuses, the girl are all attractive and I want to but I can't get myself to go up to them and talk to them and attempt to get their numbers, I'm not sure if I'm nervous, scared of rejection, or something else I want to talk to them just can't get my body to move and my mouth to do the talking. Help

Dude you must be young because no female pays attention to guys that run in packs. Don't buy into peer pressure, do your own thing and talk to girls you want to, when you want to, and let your friends play such juvenile games without you.

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let your friends play such juvenile games without you.

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Na it's not like that, they trying to help me get out my shell, but I'm just brushing them off and giving excuses. I've been single for a while and I want a girl but my efforts are below average.

Maybe you need to talk to more females, and get to know them without the pressure of scoring a phone number, until you are comfortable around females.

I think its better to socialize, and let them know you as opposed to asking a stranger for her phone number to show your friends. Like I say, hunting in a pack is not a good idea.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Maybe you need to talk to more females, and get to know them without the pressure of scoring a phone number, until you are comfortable around female

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Actually I'm very comfortable with girl, most of the people, I hang out with are girls. I have many female friend numbers. So I just don't understand,its like any girl I'm attracted to I feel nervous but with females I'm not attracted to I can speak to them with ease