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  • Jun 12, 2010, 12:06 AM
    lollylegs_leslie
    I have got a friend who is being anyoing
    I have got a friend who want leave me alone she is always in my face and she thinks she is my best friend but I don't feel that way about her. I don't want to be mean but I want some time away from her I am the only friend she has. How can I have a break from her without being a
  • Jun 12, 2010, 12:50 AM
    Clough
    Hi again, lollylegs_leslie!

    What do mean that she's always in your face, please?

    Also, have you spoken with her about the way that you feel?

    It's possible that you might not need a break from her, but maybe just some coping strategies in order to help to make a situation better.

    Thanks!
  • Jun 12, 2010, 02:13 AM
    lollylegs_leslie

    What I mean in my face is she is always wanting attention and she is reallly imature
  • Jun 12, 2010, 02:14 AM
    Clough
    How old are the two of you, please?

    Thanks!
  • Jun 12, 2010, 02:15 AM
    lollylegs_leslie

    Late teens
  • Jun 12, 2010, 02:21 AM
    Clough
    I asked you in my first post, if you have spoken to her about the way that you feel.

    Have you spoken to her, please?
  • Jun 12, 2010, 02:22 AM
    lollylegs_leslie

    No I don't have the guts because she gets upset really eaisly
  • Jun 12, 2010, 02:25 AM
    Clough
    Ah, then she thinks that it's okay to treat you the way that she does!

    Basically, she gets away with it.

    It's also probably why she has few, if any other friends.

    Would you like to know some things to say to her that might not make her upset?
  • Jun 12, 2010, 02:27 AM
    lollylegs_leslie

    Yes that would be excellent
  • Jun 12, 2010, 02:29 AM
    Clough
    What is her first name, please?
  • Jun 12, 2010, 02:30 AM
    lollylegs_leslie

    I can't tell you sorry just say...
  • Jun 12, 2010, 02:31 AM
    Clough
    Are you afraid that someone will know what you post on this website?
  • Jun 12, 2010, 02:33 AM
    lollylegs_leslie

    Sorry I can't tell you you don't need to know do you
  • Jun 12, 2010, 02:35 AM
    Clough
    You mean her name or being afraid that someone will know what you post on this website?
  • Jun 12, 2010, 02:36 AM
    lollylegs_leslie

    Both
  • Jun 12, 2010, 02:38 AM
    Clough
    I don't need to know her name.

    What you post here will be found easily in searches on the Internet. You do need to know that.

    So, we just be careful in what we post.

    Does anyone outside of this site know your user name here?
  • Jun 12, 2010, 02:40 AM
    lollylegs_leslie

    I a, not sure maybe some friends I guess
  • Jun 12, 2010, 02:42 AM
    Clough
    Then you might not want to tell that many people about the site. Just those whom you would really want to know.
  • Jun 12, 2010, 02:44 AM
    lollylegs_leslie

    Yeah I not going to tell many people
  • Jun 12, 2010, 02:54 AM
    Clough
    I'll just use a made-up girl's name for her then.

    "Jenny, I've really got a problem and I was wondering if you would be willing to help me with it? You would be just the right person to help me.

    Would you?"

    That's one way that you can begin with her. Makes her feel special because she will think that she's just the right person to help you with your problem.

    Capiche?

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