Hai I am the girl belongs to SC caste and for 1 1/2 yrs itself my office collegue(gounder) have affair with me both of them love each other.now in my house they are seeing alliance for me.on the same time in that guy house they are not accepting now,in this situtation he is asking to me what shall we do, give some suggestion.my side my parents accepted that guy.

I don't understand anything you are saying. Can you please reword this

I am also trying to understand - let me try. I think you are saying:

You are a woman. You are having an affair with a man at your office. You are from different castes. Your family accepts him but his family does not accept you. You would like to know how to convince his family to accept you.

Is this correct?

If it is, I think other than doing your best to make a good impression when you meet them, there is nothing more you can do.

Where do you live? If you are in a Western country now, you can marry whomever you want - your parents can be mad but they cannot stop you. Over time they would probaby come around, especially when you have children.

Please help us more to understand.