I am 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 4 years we have lived together for 3 of them. For the last year are sex life has been minimal, but recently in the last 5 months not at all. I have tried everything, I caught him with porn and lots of videos from the internet I didn't really say anything about it instead tried to intergrate it into our sex life. It just made me even more upset when he watched the TV not me. He doesn't spend any time with his friends or even go out much. He works and comes home and plays video cames or watches TV. I have suggested activities to do ( not sexual) on a daily basis to bring some activity to our lives. I am attractive blond with big boobs. My boyfriend says I am over weight and I wear my clothes to small. I am not in deniale I am not overweight, why does he say these things? The girls in his porno our young looking(16) and very skinny Is he just not attracted to me anymore? What Could make him not ever want to have sex? Why does he never want to do anything?