Hello
I am so hurt I don't know what to do.
I am 40 yrs old and I don't want any games in a relationship.
I have been going with the same man for 4 1/2 yrs.
Yesterday I had a terrible migraine I was unable to speak with him on the phone. I got the message to him that I was ill with headache.
Today I called him and his father was there and he told me that Jimmy split... he went up to the familys farm!
He didn't even tell me he was going. I am so very upset.
Mind you this is a man that would not allow me to go to a hockey game because of his jealousy of my friends.
Now here I am clueless. He just took off without calling me all day to even tell me where he is.
I am starting to feel that the only way for this man to learn now his behavior hurts me is to treat him the same way although I don't want to play any games.
But isn't it the only way to show others how their actions hurt YOU by being the same way to THEM>?
I am honestly heartbroken, even his dad told me he can't believe he didn't call me to tell me he was going.
Meanwhile here I am wondering how on earth this happened. Last summer this happened when he took his son to the shore and didn't tell me and he promised me it would never happen again. But here I am at the same point. I am so hurt.
Any advice as to what to do ?
Jackie