Originally Posted by
CravenMorhead
Why is it the the first thing people jump to is Porn Addiction? I don't understand it.
Anyhow. I don't think he is addicted to porn.
In my later years of university, year five and six, I had the same deal, full time student with a part time job. I was also about 22-24. There were times where I would crawl into bed and not want to touch, or be touched by anyone. I just wanted sleep.
I see a few things going on here.
1). When you're initating is probably right before bed. A popular but often bad time. He is probably physical and mentally over tired wanting naught but the sweet embrace of sleep.
2). When he does get randy you might not be around. Porn is always there.
3). It could be that he doesn't believe that he has the hour to spare to romance you but can spare 10 minutes to polish one off.
4). There is no number four.
5). More often than not, you can leave your work at work. A student can't do that. Being a full time student with a part-time job and a relationship isn't comparable to a 40+hr/week job.
At this point you have a couple options. You can try iniating during the day, not late at night. Try to get him when he is not tired. Take him on weekends, before dinner, or when he gets home.
As homegirl50 suggested talk to him, see what going on.
I don't believe that the porn has anything to do with this.