I think I'm pregnant. Yes by the dumb jerk that broke up with me a while ago. I really don't want to go through this again and I don't want to tell my dad he will be so disappointed. I don't blame this on me though I blame it on my ex, with me being forced and all I'm scared, I wasn't scared the last time I was pregnant because I hardly cared, but now I'm scared to tell my dad I don't want to see him cry again and most of all I don't want anything to do with that Dumb Stupid a$$ boy. I want an abortion but I don't want my dad to know at all and since I live in Ohio I think I have to have a parent or guardian around to have an abortion. I thought I was done worrying about things but I'm not, and I just want advice

Did your last pregnancy result in having the child? How old are you?

I'm 16 And if you look at my other question it says I had a miscarriage.

I think I'm pregnant. Yes by the dumb jerk that broke up with me a while ago. I really don't want to go through this again and I don't want to tell my dad he will be so disappointed. I don't blame this on me though I blame it on my ex, with me being forced and all I'm scared, I wasn't scared the last time I was pregnant because I hardly cared, but now I'm scared to tell my dad I don't want to see him cry again and most of all I don't want anything to do with that Dumb Stupid a$$ boy. I want an abortion but I don't want my dad to know at all and since I live in Ohio I think I have to have a parent or guardian around to have an abortion. I thought I was done worrying about things but I'm not, and I just want advice

Oh Gee.

I don't have any advice here but I remember your old post.

I really am sorry you have to go through this after everything else that's happened.

I hope you can get this fixed without too much heart ache.

One bit of advice... Next time you get a boyfriend. Go on birth control. I know he forced you but maybe the pill could have prevented this.

First find out if you are indeed pregnant. If you are, it would be best to share this with your dad, even though he will be disappointed, he would certainly want you to have the care you will need regardless of what you decide to do. You will likely need his consent if you did decide on an abortion.

Unfortunately this entire situation with your ex-boyfriend has been an emotionally costly experience for you. Hopefully it has at least been an important eye-opener for the qualities you will look for in a boyfriend and how you will allow yourself to be treated in future relationships.

Surround yourself with family and true friends... it will get easier to sort through all of the feelings you have gone through. You will be stronger and wiser because of it.

First of all, how old are you? And why is this the second time you are pregnant? Maybe in the future you should consider some form of contraception, to avoid going through this mess?

How did you cope with the last pregnancy? What happened there? Did you get an abortion for that one?

If you HAVE to have a parent or guardian present for your abortion, then the only thing to do would be to come clean to your dad. He may be disappointed initially, but at the end of the day, he is your father, and is there to help you.

Good luck.