What does she mean when she says she wants a break to be a teenager, to be free?
My girlfriend tells me she wants a break so that she can be a teenager and be free. She keeps feeling attraction to different people and doesn't know why. She knows she loves me and tells me we have something that few people find. She has a past of being abused by her father. I think that she craves the attention people who are interested in her give her and so she thinks she likes them in return. Her father verbally abused her and I think she seeks hearing that she truly is a good person and anyone who tells her that contradicts her father and gives her hope. She thinks her issues are giving us this trouble and holding her back. The majority of the people she supposedly is attracted to are abusive in some way. I think that is because abuse victims tend to be vulnerable to abusers and lots of times end up with an abuser, which definitely doesn't mean they are people she should be with. I think deep down people like her somehow believe that they don't deserve a good person and they pull themselves away from it when they find it even if they don't want to break up. Does any of that make sense? What is she really thinking and what should I do?