My girlfriend wants a break
So my girlfriend and I have been together for 10 months and have fallen in love together. I realise this is not a long relationship but I really do think she is amazing and I have been an awesome supportive, caring generous and thoughtful boyfriend to her. She says she loves me too. I believe her. She is moving to Germany from England for a long period and we originally thought we could make it work. The last few weeks she has been telling me she is missing me when we are not together and loves me very much, very normal as she always has done. However as the move gets closer she has got cold feet and is concerned about being torn between coming to see me in England at the weekends and staying in Germany with her work mates. She didn’t have a long break between her last boyfriend and me who cheated on her and think she has issues of trust or worries of imagining things that in the end turn to crap. She has told me she wants a break because of the long distance thing in the long term but also that she thinks she needs to be single for a while to she how she would cope with it, enjoy it or want a boyfriend again, hopefully me! Think I have been coming on very serious about the relationship as I really do love her but don’t mean to be jealous of her work friends (men) or crowd her. I am afraid I may have been doing this by getting annoyed if she doesn’t call or text during a night out. The main question is how should I deal with it now considering we are not going to talk on the phone for a few says at a time but are still making plans to see each other in a week or so? How do I behave to get her back and keep her, can I?
Girlfriend broke up with me but still stays in touch!
So my girlfriend were together for 11 months and we went on a break for 3 weeks then split up. She said she loved me but needed to be on her own. She then kept in touch calling posting things on face book and then a full album of pictures of me and her which she didn't do while we were together. She came to support me at a race I was running in and still tries to stay in touch. Any one know why? To fill a gap while she looks for someone else? To make it easier for me? Easier for her? Or just because she is confused and is worried she has made a mistake? Maybe she is worried that I will find someone else? Let me know what you think please!