so I have an issue about an ex we dated for almost 2 years and I met him right after I got out of a relationship he waited so long for me to be ready to be in a new one and was my best friend finally I gave in... or it was even assumed I was in one. I was a year younger and we started dating when I was going into grade 12 and he was going first year of university he was so loyal to me and the best boyfriend I can ask for, even though it was a kind of long distance relationship because the university was 2.5 hrs away from our home town but we talked every night and saw each other every 2 weeks and our relationship was amazing we've been through so much together and so much life experience from dealing with ones parents divorcing to other things... and our first summer when he came home was amazingg, then the following year I went to the same university as him (and no I didn't go there cause he goes there I actually wanted to go there for the longest time) and at first things were going good then all of the sudden it started going downhill from there I came with no friends to university unlike him and wanted to establish my own life making new friends and balancing a job and school work and a boyfriend was tough so I guess I wasn't being a good girlfriend in regards to giving him attention and making an effort to see him at all. So at the end of my first year we broke up and he ended it and yea the reason we broke up was me it was my fault I wasn't trying at all and he was being such a good boyfriend now its summer and 3 months after we broke up I really miss him and I guess I realize I can't take things for granted like I took him. We talked about us for the past 3 months and hooked up a couple of times but he basically established that he's happier being single and I guess I feel kind of the opposite. Then this week I found out that he slept with a girl in the past 3 months we have been broken up and kissed 6 other ones I know he's single but it just hurts so much cause I haven't done that and he's been treating me kind of like t the past 3 months he's cancelled our plans last minute, acted as though he doesn't give a t about me. Then there are other times he texts me randomly and say he missed me and wants to see me I just am sooo confused whether to give it time and see where it goes and hopefully get another chance to prove him that I can be a good girlfriend or to just say it and try to move on and take this as a learning experience (even though I love him) pleasee help me I'm sooo confussed!!