My husband and I have been trying to have a baby now for a year and nothing is happening for us I am looking for ideas on how to get pregent!~!

Relax. Lift your legs up. Do not get out of bed right away. Only do the act once in a day every other day. Go on vacation, it really does work.

Joe

Have you thought of using an ovulation kit? They are very good and will pin point your most fertile time (so you don't need to oveer exert yourselves!) I am trying too, let me know if you get any good tips!

I have tried laying down for 30 min. after sex,we have tried having sex almost every day.we have tried the pillow thingand that has not worked either,

No I haven't used the ovulation kit because for the last two months my peroids have been so messed up that I am not on a 28 day cycle any more and I don't like you can use it if you are not all ways the same? And I am not sure I will know the best two days to use it.

I had same thing, As my cycle is between 28days and 33 days, I start testing on the ninth day until the 15 day. Also I make sure I am trying every other day throughout this period. If you are not regular, the you should add the different lengths of your cycle and take the average and base it on this. Do you feel really stressed out about getting pregnant? This can prevent it from happening.

Yes,I am really stressed out about it I really want it to happen.

I am late on my peroid now,I fill like I am goig to start I don't know if it is just stress or maybe all the hard work paid off I hope

I know how you feel, its just such hard work, all those years worrying about getting pregnant when your younger and now it seems such a task! If you are pregnant then that's fab, if not then you really will need to calm yourself, it won't help. My friend saw a hypnotherapist to relax her and it worked. Im not sure, but it's a thought worth considering? :-)

MY mom says stop worring about it,it will happen when it is time,and I tell her I am not getting any younger.

Stress = No Pregnancy.

The more you obsess about it the longer it will take to happen. You need to relax... I know this from experience and now I have twins... I think I relaxed a bit too much... lol. I have a site that I used. I hope it helps you as much as it did me. But seriously the more you stress the more hostile the environment for the sperm. Relax and enjoy the peace before the baby gets here cause you won't have any after you can trust me on that.

www.fertilityfriend.com

Honestly, you do need to relax. It seems to happen that when we worry about it we won't get pregnant. However, go into having sex with your husband without a "goal" just enjoy each other for a night. If you are both relaxed and not worrying about the outcome things just might work out. Besides, you both might just need a night to be with each other... make it a date or do something fun first.