Would you wait or move on?
I have been dating this guy for 8 months and he has 5 month old twins with a woman he has been off and on with for 7 years. We have had our ups and down. We have bought marriage license and was set to get married really soon to find out the mother of the twins has a ring that she has been having for 3 years. She and I talked and she mentioned that they live together but has not had sex, not even oral in the last 6 months. He finally packed up and left and our plans continued to blossom until one day out of the blue, he said he wanted to wait to get married. He mentioned to me that the mother of the twins told him if he was with me, he could not see the babies. I'm thinking its more than that. I'm confused now to should I be waiting until he sorts his thoughts or should I just be going on with my life because of the baggage. I feel as though he is in love with both of us and has come to a crossroad. What would you guys do?