He's married and not happy with her
Ok well here's my problem, I have been seeing this guy for a wile now and he's married with kids. He is not happy in his marriage but we are very happy together. I love him very much and he feels the same way about me. The only readson he is with his wife still is for the kids. I don't know what to do. He is a marine and on recruting duty. I can completely understand the long hours and stuff like that and all his wife wants to do is about it, but that's what happeneds when you do recruting duty. All I want for him is to be happy. Is it wrong for me to love him? Please help..?
Re: he's married and not happy with her
My advice is to leave him, unless your fine with sharing your guy. Keep in mind that he's unfaithful to his wife and still being married unfaithful to you. He's obsiously someone that can not be trusted if he's with the both of you. Your sharing your guy with his wife. He says that he loves you but won't leave his wife? Children are not a reason to say with someone that you "dont love". Its obvious that he loves his wife and is not willing to leave her. He wants the best of both worlds. Good luck jennipher.
He's married and not happy with her
He is not your man. You are an intruder in a sacred vow that was made between two people. You are a thorn in the side of his wife and children and are recklessly endangering their chances of reconciliation and happiness in the future. You are taking advantage of a situation in which a couple has come to a point of discord in their marriage. It is none of your business and you should gracefully back away from the entire situation! If a man is divorced then you have reason to get involved in a relationship with him but this is deceit! He is a cheater and you are a thief! Have more respect for yourself, his wife, his children and hope that they can grow up with their father! Get a life and a man of your own without stealing him from another woman! You'll be a better person if you do!
Don't do this to him or yourself
That's a horrible situation to be in but the fact that you started a relationship with a man you knew was married is your fault. He should choose between you and his wife and so far it seems like he's using you to get what he wants without a real or ignolage relationship. He may say its for the kids but if his kids ever found out even when they are older it would be much worse than their parents divorcing. Its OK for you to love him but its not OK for you to do something about it.
I hate women like you and scum like him.
I am going through this same situation expect I am the wife. My husband is in the military and we are separted with a possible divorce. Because I found out he was cheating. We have three children one who is austic. I don't buy his sob story of his wife ******** at him. I can't believe you do. Military wives do understand the scarfice of having a husband in the military. We are prepared and understand the demands of the job. He just feeding you a bunch of lies. You are just a piece of *** to him. If he leaves his wife for you most likely he will do the same to you. What is wrong with people like you two. Don't you understand marriage is a sacried vow. Don't you have any respect for yourself. There are some things you should never do in life and that is to fool around with a married person. I don't feel for you at all. I feel sorry for his wife and three children. I understand marriage doesn't work out all the time, but it shouldn't be because a spouse was unfaithful. So just back off and let this husband and wife work on their issues. Once he has the divorce papers in his hands then you two can **** each other. But if you don't take my advice you should be prepared to face those children and tell them why mommy and daddy are not together.