I was playing with my friends when I saw a girl walk past my boyfriend and when she did she touched her in the high on purposs. :S

That's not acceptable. Even if he didn't already have a girlfriend, touching girls without their consent is assault. Touching them on the thigh could well be sexual assault. If this wasn't a one-off which will never be repeated, I'd dump him. Preferably into a big deep dark hole.

If this happened at school.. he could very well be in trouble. In our schools our kids have a no contact rule... no kissing.. hugging.. holding hands.. cuddling or touching inappropriately. Tell him this.

How old are you two?

This is very childish behavior and very inappropriate. It's time he learns some manners and to keep his hands to himself.

Looking at your other threads it seems that you have nothing but trouble with this boy. Why are you with him?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...nd-474958.html

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/middle...me-475017.html

Because he is so cuteand I like blue eyes

Then it's that's your only requirements for a boyfriend I guess you'll have to put up with his actions.

Just tell him its inappropriate. Communication is better than all the hate. Hormones make boys and girls stop thinking. Confront, communicate, educate.

Blue eyes and cute and you put up with his actions? There are a lot of cute boys with blue eyes who are cute and they're not players... How old are you?

I'm guessing the OP is between 11 and 13 if her only requirements for a boyfriend is that he's cute and has blue eyes. :rolleyes:

I'm going to give her the benefit of the doubt and hope that when she grows up a bit and matures a bit, her requirements for a boyfriend will also mature.

So OP, he has blue eyes and he's cute, so I guess you either realize that this is a really silly reason to stay with someone, or you put up with his childish behavior until another cute blue eyed boy comes a long.

Either way, we can't help you simply because you're not willing to see past his cuteness. Complaining to us about his behavior won't help, only you have the power to walk away from this kid.

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I'm going to give her the benefit of the doubt and hope that when she grows up a bit and matures a bit, her requirements for a boyfriend will also mature.

So OP, he has blue eyes and he's cute, so I guess you either realize that this is a really silly reason to stay with someone, or you put up with his childish behavior until another cute blue eyed boy comes a long.

Either way, we can't help you simply because you're not willing to see past his cuteness. Complaining to us about his behavior won't help, only you have the power to walk away from this kid.

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Well said. Better than my sarcasm that is likely lost on such a young person. :)

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Just tell him its inappropriate. Communication is better than all the hate. Hormones make boys and girls stop thinking. Confront, communicate, educate.

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His hormones do not give him an excuse for putting his hands on a girl in a manner that is totally inappropriate. Rachel... You need to grow up up a little and look at the guy for what he is... I don't care if he looks like Brad Pitt his actions are childish and bordering on sexual harassment .

I am 11

Why do you even have a boyfriend?? Do your parents know about this?

Why are you in such a hurry to grow up? My childhood got cut short. I wish I could have stayed innocent longer than I had, but I didn't make the choice to grow up quickly. You have a choice here. Enjoy what's left of your childhood.

I don't want to be lonely because every body in my class goes out with someone and I don't want to be left out.Yes my mum does
Know.

Everyone? Really? You don't have any single friends?

What if you were the trend setter then? Being single really is a good thing at your age. You could always be the cool one in the group.

Then depending on what your "going out is" you have a poor mother who is not doing her job as a mother.
And we wonder why 12 year olds are having babies.

I don't want a baby and I don't what to set a new trend either I want to be in love with someone cute

It's okay to want someone cute. But set higher standards for yourself. Blue eyes and cute is not enough if someone behaves in a way that could get him arrested if he were a little older.

You wouldn't be posting here if you weren't worried about his behaviour. You already know what he's doing isn't right. You deserve better than him. You should have a guy that you want to boast about to everyone, not one that makes you so uneasy you are posting on the internet.

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i dont want a baby and i dont wat to set a new trend either i want to be in love with someone cute

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You have to treat yourself well if you expect others to. Think about how you want to be treated? Wouldn't you prefer to have a boy who likes you so much that they treat you as special as you are? If you put up with a behaviour you don't like, don't expect him to change.

There are plenty of cute boys with blue eyes who will be the kind of boyfriend you deserve. It is OK if you are on your own for awhile... don't settle for a cute boy who doesn't respect your feelings. Besides, if you are known to have a boyfriend already, you might miss the chance to meet someone who is even better... :)

Have you told him you didn't like it when he touched the other girl as she walked by? If so, what did he say? If not, why don't you tell him. If he really cares about your feelings he won't do it again. If he continues, while knowing you don't like it, that will tell you he isn't boyfriend material right now.

Personally I'd rather be with someone who makes me feel special and treats me well... even if he has green eyes!