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  • May 30, 2010, 11:27 AM
    das729
    Am I pregnant
    Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex on may 8th and 9th and 10th and 13th and 14th. My last period was April 29th and have a 28 day cycle usually. I just came off my pill a week and a half before my last period. Ive only been on the pill since December. My boyfriends last girlfriend says she was infertile and they had a kid and found out the first 2 months of being together. I don't smoke or anything. I'm 21 and he's 25. Do I have a really high chance of being pregnant this month? I hear people have a hard time when they just come off the pill. He did ejaculate in me each time too. I also had cramps the 15th and 16th, not sure if that means anything. It just feels like something is going on down there and I feel pregnant (that might sound weird). What were the cramps? From not being on the pill or because I'm pregnant or ovulation? Did anyone experience this before they found out they were pregnant? Also last week I woke up and had a lot of creamy white discharge on my underwear. Four days ago I was really sleepy (but I always am) and kind of a bit sick like I was going to get the flu or something. I don't think I had any symptoms, no cramps or anything and same with today so I don't think I'm pregnant, right? My tummy feels and looks pretty fat though. I took a test Wednesday morning and it was negative and my period is suppose to come thhursday but never did. I have no sign of cramps either and for the last couple days there was a very very white discharge once a day. When it dries it turns yellow. What is it? Its now Sunday and no sign of period. I am not ready for a baby :(.
  • May 30, 2010, 11:35 AM
    d_rollet

    If you're not ready for a baby, then you shouldn't be having unprotected sex.
    That being said, you should stop guessing and go to Planned Parenthood, or a walk in clinic to find out. It's a lot less scary than not knowing if you're pregnant or not. Coming off the pill might be screwing with your peiod too.
  • May 30, 2010, 12:15 PM
    DoulaLC

    IF you go by the norm, you were having unprotected sex in what was likely your most fertile time. The cramping could have been just cramps, could have been from implantation, or from ovulation. It is not uncommon to have white discharge in early pregnancy, but again it could just be increased discharge and you are noticing things more because of concern of a possible pregnancy.

    See what happens in the next few days... period may just be off this cycle. If still no period, try another pregnancy test at home or, as d_rollet suggested, go to a clinic or your doctor for a pregnancy test there.

    If you are not pregnant, than certainly get some information on birth control so that you can ease future worry.
  • May 30, 2010, 12:47 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    You will not nearly be showing or be able to tell at this early point. I will assume since you went off birth control and were having unprotected sex during the most fertile time you are wanting to have a baby

    But of course even the pill is not 100 percent effective, so you could have been even using the pill, but coming off you well can be.
  • Jun 1, 2010, 09:09 PM
    das729

    Now its Tuesday and no period, I took a test last night and came up negative
  • Jun 1, 2010, 09:34 PM
    aimee_tt

    In the next day or two you will probably get your period. It culd just be the stress of thinking you are pregnant that is stopping your period.

    But if it hasn't started in a few days maybe go see a doctor. Also think about any changes you have made lately in your diet or life. They too could have affected you
  • Jun 1, 2010, 09:37 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by das729 View Post
    now its tuesday and no period, i took a test last night and came up negative

    You really should be using first morning urine, not at night.

    I really would try another test and this time use first morning urine.
  • Jun 1, 2010, 09:40 PM
    JoeCanada76

    You could be.
  • Jun 2, 2010, 03:42 PM
    das729

    Still no period I'm starting to freak out
  • Jun 2, 2010, 03:48 PM
    DoulaLC

    Frustrating not being sure, I know. Maybe you are just skipping a month. You can continue to try a home pregnancy test every several days, see your doctor about a blood test, or wait and see what happens next month when your period would be due.

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