Im going to middle school in August, and there's this girl I really like. She's kind of popular (im not the only one) but I think I have a chance. Its not sexual in any way! And I just need some advice on how to go out with her in middle school. I have known her for years, she knows I like her, and I have flirted successfully in the past. Please help!

Hi, Help_please!

Do you already have her phone number?

Thanks!

I'm not that far. I just finished 5th grade. But how do I get there?

Not need to worry about getting her so soon. Just get to know her better. Be friends.

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Originally Posted by I wish

Not need to worry about getting her so soon. Just get to know her better. Be friends.

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Yes I agree. Just get to know her first. If you are just going into middle school you are in grade what, 6 or 7? You have another 6 to 7 years to even try to date her.Become friends and then she will become more comfortable around you.

Like they said get to know her a little more. See what's she's like before just diving in. Trust me if you do this it will help you in the coming future! :)

Okay your telling me to wait but... This is partly for the popularity of going out with this girl and partly just spending time with the girl I like. Im not trying to get a relashinship that will last for years. Just give me some advice on how to impress her a little and maybe go out.

You want to go out with her for the popularity?

You can't just use a girl to become popular! Have you really though about it? When you break up it doesn't mean your all the sudden popular...

What if yous end bad and she puts you down to the whole school?

You can't just date someone cause they are popular and you want to be...

Have a look at yourself and think about what you really want... not what will makes things easy for you

Ummm... How about just wait awhile till you actually get to middle. And plus you should wait till you get older. Your just coming out of elementary school.

Okay your right... I'm an idiot. I won't get popular. I shouldn't have said that. But can someone just answer the question! What should I do? Or should I give up?
I don't have any experience in this so I am not sure what to do.

If you honestly do like this girl then Talk to her... does she have myspace or Facebook? Talk to her on there. If your too shy ask a friend to ask her what she thinks of you. But remember your both so young! She may not be ready for a boyfriend! I honestly don't think your ready for a girlfriend either but we can't stop you from doing what you want to do. All I will say is don't rush anything. Take things slow.

Your not an idiot. Don't give up. Just wait till you get older. Your way to young. But later in life just be yourself, get to know that person and start a conversation. There that's all I can say right now cause I'm hungry. Very!:)

Okay, I wrote I stupid question and realized I was wrong
(see here: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/middle-school-dating-tips-474779.html)
Im kind of freaked out about going to middle school and was trying to get advice on how to ask a girl out because I thought I might be seen better going out(and for the sake of asking a girl out.) I am scared to be seen as an idiot or a nerd and want to be popular. What should I do? I have friends but am worried about the 2 other elementry school 5th grades. And I'm just kind of freaked out about middle school altogether.

Okay I sound like an idiot trying to be seen as popular. Just give me some advice on middle school please.

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Be yourself. Why do you have to worry about being popular?

Being someone your not to impress others isn't going to make you happy. I was never popular in school. I didn't see the need to be popular. Just be nice to everyone from the popular to the nerdy. And you'll find that more people will respect you.

Try being yourself. If people don't like you for who you are then that's their problem.

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Be your self. Why do you have to worry about being popular?

Being someone your not to impress others isnt going to make you happy. I was never popular in school. I didnt see the need to be popular. Just be nice to everyone from the popular to the nerdy. and youll find that more people will respect you.

Try being your self. If people dont like you for who you are then thats their problem.

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That is a good point, you shouldn't worry about middle school -DO NOT FAKE YOURSELF IF YOU DO AND THEY FIND OUT YOU LIED YOU WILL HATE YOURSELF AND WANT TO DIE TRUST ME- just live your life and do your school work I don't have good grades and I'm not very happy with my life but I am myself I have my own set of friends I only trust people who I can trust just don't worry it will be fine. Okay middle school goes by fast I am in high school right now annd it is truly fun so don't worry about that either just try and make friends with the kids from the other 2 schools and make friends with the 7th and 8th graders

Hey dude I have read almost all your posts and middle school isn't bad I only had 1 girlfriend in middle school just calm yourself if you really want her you have to become good friends with her I mean you said she knows you like her make your move later just relax and don't stress yourself I hated middle school because I was so stressed

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hey dude i have read almost all your posts and middle school isn't bad i only had 1 girlfriend in middle school just calm yourself if you really want her you have to become good friends with her i mean you said she knows you like her make your move later just relax and don't stress yourself i hated middle school because i was so stressed

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If she really likes you she will say yes but you can be friends I have plenty of female friends some younger some older

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