My 4 year old wants to sleep in the same bed as her dad. Is this OK? She also want me(her mom) to get in the tub with her. Is this OK? At what age should we put a stop to it?

Sleep in the same bed with her father all the time? My problem with that is she has to get used to sleeping alone. I have no problem if a child is sick but I think parents need privacy in the bedroom.

As far as bathing together, I find no problem there, either, unless it's an "all the time" thing - is it a problem for you?

I find SOME nudity is natural around children. I insist on privacy and respect for parents and each other but if a child walks in when I'm dressing I don't make a big deal out of it.

My daughter was sleeping in bed with my hsuband and I until she was about a month before turning 6.
I see nothing wrong with it. As long as dad and child and you are comfratable with hit. As it WILL cut into your private time lol.