I have been with my boyfriend for 2yrs in July. I am also 19 an have a 2yr old duaghter. He has been with me scene I was 5months pergo an has always stood by me he raise my duaghter like his own an loves her he supports us to. But late after he comes home from work he disappers he say he going over to a friends but always leaves out the friends name. He has been very descent from me lately he doesn't seem to want to do much with us anymore.. so I am wondering is he tired of us are we too much persure are too much to handle are is this him cheating oh an before I forget he was dateing 3 girls at once before he met me he dumped them all for me I hope...

He's known as a cheater. What do you expect? Why are you still sticking around?

Find someone else who isn't a cheater.

Got to say, sounds like it to me... address the situation, be a woman, get sneaky and catch him out. Then move on into a decent relationship.

To me it sounds like he could be cheating.. you need to talk to him, you don't want someone like that in your daughters life. You can find someone much better who would love to spend time with you and your daughter and not find the need to run off every time. He isn't ready to grow up.

It's possible that he is cheating, but it's impossible to say for sure.

I know you say he's going places, but have you noticed any other changed in his behavior?

Is he overly protective of his cell phones, e-mail, etc.

Has he changed his grooming habits?

Is he treating you differently?

Any changes in the bedroom?

You have been together for two years, and should be able to talk about anything, your hopes, fears, and insecurities.

Communications is what you need to find your answers instead of letting your imagination lead you to false conclusions.

I remember your other posts, and they are full of insecurity and lack of knowledge so maybe a trusted older female can be of a great help to you.