Well me and my girlfriend are both 16 and well we have been going out 2 years now but we've hardly even got past kissing, I ask if she wants to try other stuff but she just says the'll try another time and well its got to a point we're I'm repressing my urges and I feel its doing me mentally and possibly physical harm, no matter what I tell her though she just says that she'll try other stuff but she never does

Young fellow, she isn't ready for what you want, and who cares what your repressing.

I find your behavior selfish, and offensive.

Yes, if you really cared for her, you would even respect her choices. So go find a "ho" that will do what you want.
And to be honest your post shows a real issue to me, she sounds like the mature one to me.

And it will not harm you, if you worry, shut the bathroom door and make sure you won't get ill.

"Sexually mature" is the wrong term.

She wants to wait or is not ready to have sex. You want to make her do something she is uncomfortable with.

Hardly a "mature" way of handling things.

I don't know of any kid that has died from a hard on.
This girl is not ready for sex and neither are you, as you seem to think that sex is all about you.
Get acquainted with Miss Palmer, that will take care of your discomfort. Stop pressuring your girl friend before she tells you to get lost. There is no reason a 16 year old girl should to lose her virginity to a 16 year old boy just because he's horny.

You're not more sexually mature, you're a horny teenage boy.

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Originally Posted by TheElectricCat

Im sexually more mature than my girlfriend

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Doesn't sound like it :rolleyes:

Sexually more mature? That's a joke right?

She is not ready to go further. You can't change that. Your choices are:

1. Visit Miss Palmer and her 5 daughters before you see your girlfriend. You will be less arroused when you have already done the deed.

2. Get over it. Let her go at her own pace. Let her tell you when she is ready.

3. Like Fr_Chuck said go find a Ho to do the dirty work and leave your GF to find a guy who respects her!

I think your being a little pushy. You can't make her do the things that you want to do. If she doesn't want to do those things she doesn't. So stop only caring about your feelings and care about hers. And if its doing you emotionally and physically harm. You may need to seek help.