Moved to its own thread



My girlfriend keeps bringing my past and she tries to make things to hurt me, or to supposedly get me back for what I did before. She won't stop bringing my past, and she says she want to do the same thing I did so that we can be the same.

The thing is that I used to be a happy guy as you know what I mean, and I cheated on her a couple of times, and she found out but the thing is that I stop because I love her, and I want to be good but I caught her talking to guys texting with them, and sending them pictures of her, and sweet talking what can I do in this case??

Her bad behavior is her acting out because you hurt her Mr. Happy go lucky, and you may as well break up and let her heal, because the mere mention of your name is a reason for hatred disgust, and betrayal.

That's why you leave, and if you love her so much, why did it take her to catch you before you decided to straighten up and be a real man?

Take your punishment or leave, but you don't get to cry about what she is now doing because you really deserve it, even though her behavior is as bad as yours was.

I think you need to be apart, and both of you grow up.

You all are like oil and water. Trust is gone on her part. Move on and let her move on.

Sit down and have a talk with her.

I think the best thing you can say to her right now is that your letting her go before she makes the same mistake you did.

Tell her that you love her too much to let her do what you did. That she will regret it if she does it and if your not around she won't do it.

Tell her she is better than that. She deserves better than you (no offence but you did cheat on her)and you don't want her to sink to your level.

Let her go before she makes this big mistake and hates you even more. Because it will be your fault she felt the need to do it.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by aimee_tt

Sit down and have a talk with her.

I think the best thing you can say to her right now is that your letting her go before she makes the same mistake you did.

Tell her that you love her too much to let her do what you did. That she will regret it if she does it and if your not around she wont do it.

Tell her she is better than that. She deserves better than you (no offence but you did cheat on her)and you dont want her to sink to your level.

Let her go before she makes this big mistake and hates you even more. Because it will be your fault she felt the need to do it.

---

Very true

What do you do? You both go your own way and quit hurting each other.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by bleusong52

What do you do? You both go your own way and quit hurting each other.

---

You two do not need to be together.