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  • May 22, 2010, 09:03 PM
    NItEMArE129
    Anyone ever felt weird about this?
    Just out of curiousity, do any of you feel weird thinking how your current bf/gf used to kiss other people?

    Personally, I feel a little weird about it (this is the first time I've dated someone who's kissed somebody else).

    If you have dealt with this, how have you come to terms with it? I just feel a little weird thinking about it.
  • May 22, 2010, 09:08 PM
    Wondergirl
    I'm glad he did so he got a little practice and didn't smear spit all over MY face.
  • May 22, 2010, 09:32 PM
    amireallybad

    Now that I think about it... yea it is awkward lol
    Im actually dating my best friends ex boyfriend...
    Now its ewwwwie thinking about it
  • May 23, 2010, 05:50 AM
    Cat1864

    When I was dating, I didn't really think about it. If I did it would have opened the door to comparing his kisses to previous boyfriends. No person deserves to be compared to someone else especially when it comes to intimacy.

    Each of us are unique and our responses to each other are unique.
  • May 23, 2010, 03:42 PM
    highachiever

    Actually, I never really thought about what my current bf/gf did with other people. Maybe because they aren't with those people anymore, my bf/gf was with me and kissing me. But I have to agree with other posters that I am glad they got some practice before me.
  • May 23, 2010, 03:48 PM
    Devorameira

    Why worry about the past, especially for something as minor as a kiss?

    If we were discussing someone sleeping with multiple partners without using protection, then that might warrant concern.
  • May 23, 2010, 06:00 PM
    friend4u178

    Have you kissed anyone else?
  • May 23, 2010, 06:28 PM
    talaniman

    I guess when your enjoying what your doing, you don't have time to freak out about what you don't know. I don't think I would have cared any way.
  • May 23, 2010, 06:48 PM
    EmoPrincess

    Sometime's it's weird. But not too bad

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