I've been talking to some girl and we went out on my birthday , I told her I like her after 3 weeks and she told me she did not feel th same way, but still she continues to hang with me and I've only known her for a month now. She told me she still likes her ex who broke up with her about 4,5 years ago. I've talked to her ex since we go to school together and he says he would be happy if I was with her, now I want to pursaude her to date me , we have fun with one another ,she comes to my house some times, she said she like me but not as much as I do. Any idea's on what I should do

Hi, Jeha!

Is her ex currently dating someone else, please?

Thanks!

He told me he was basically in a relationship with someone else

Does the girl that you're trying to date know that?

Not sure

Maybe you ought to ask her, then.

But ibelieve she does

To be really sure, I think that you should ask her if she does.

Do you know that this girl has fun doing things with you? Also, does she actively seek you out for conversation as well as to see if there might be something that the two of you could do together?

This is what my friends think, exact quote they say I should " it" and just stop talking to her but I think she does like me bus has not let go of some one who does not want her


She asked me to accompany her to her friends youth night so she would not be bored

Does she have many female friends?

Also, have you dated other girls previously?

I apologize for all the questions! However, asking them is frequently the only way for someone answering to really get a true picture as to what's really going on.

She does not have many feemale friends, yes I've dated other girls previously, but its been a while about 4 years since

I've read a bit of previous postings by you on other threads...

Do you plan to go to a college or university to further your education?

Yes I do, but I will be on the island that I reside on and so will she

What is the primary lanquage that is written and spoken on that island, please?

Staten island ny. English

Okay.

Do you worry A LOT about whether that girl likes you or not?

Yes, like I play Xbox with her and she says that I'm like the only one she can play with, I don't exactly know what that means. She kind of gives mixed feelings

What if you spent your energy just concentrating on how to share a good time with her and having a good time with her and not worrying so much as to whether she likes you or not?

Obviously, she does like you...

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Originally Posted by Jeha

she asked me to accompany her to her friends youth night so she would not be bored

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That does not sound like a great invitation. You have to decide if it sounds good to you.:)

Well I guess I'll have to get back to you on that since its tomorrow that I'm going with her, but I did invite her to my house today to watch a movie with me and she came