I finally asked this girl out and she said yes...
But I'm already doubting myself and the situation. There is the girl who I've had the biggest crush on for the longest time, but I never had the courage to ask her out as I wasn't sure if she was interested, even though I picked up some subtle signs of interest. So today, I said 'screw it, I'm going to be a man and just ask her out. Well I made some small talk with her first, I wasn't nervous at all and I was enjoying the conversation. Then I said 'I wanted to ask you something.. would you like to go out for coffee or dinner sometime?" She said 'What?' because I guess she didn't hear me properly. I think my voice was too low, or I was nervous, there was a lady sitting close by, I sort of didn't want her to hear that I was asking a girl out. So I repeated the question a little louder, it seemed like she thought about it for a second, but then she said 'Sure'.
She said that this week wasn't any good because she was busy with a lot of stuff, she said maybe this Friday or Sunday. I asked for her number and she joked at first and said no, but then wrote it down for me. I see her a couple times a week where she works so she said she'd see me around.
Now, I'm sure anyone reading this would conclude that she is obviously interested because she said yes when I asked her out and she gave me her phone number.
But for some reason I'm doubting myself and the whole situation, thinking she isn't really interested but she felt sorry for me or something, or she didn't want to say no because I see her all the time and it would be awkward. And also because she said she couldn't do it this week and only said 'maybe' for Friday and Sunday.
So my big question is, and I'm sure some of you will think it's a pretty dumb question, but would a girl say yes when you ask her out if she wasn't interested in you?
I've been out of the game for so long, I'm finally over a breakup of a nearly 5 year relationship and I'm ready to start dating. I'm so rusty when it comes to women and this is the first girl that I've liked this much that I've actually got the courage to ask out! Am I reading to far into this? I mean, would she say yes and give me her phone number if she wasn't interested? And how do I proceed? When should I call her? I'll see her tomorrow actually, so what should I say to her? I just feel so awkward and so unsure of myself, please, someone give me some assurance what happened earlier tonight was definitely a good thing. I hate doubting myself over things like this.