How to tell your girlfriend likes someone else
I've been going out with my girlfriend for six months now and since we first started going out I noticed that she smiles at her sister's boyfriend a lot when no one's looking. At first I thought that it was nothing because she smiles a lot. But the longer we've been together the more I realize things. Her sister and her boyfriend have been going out for five years now, so my girlfriend met him before me. I know that she loves me and that she would choose to spend time with me over him any day of the week, but lately I've noticed that she stares at him a lot when we eat out and she always tries to get his attention and stand out when he's with us. I know that this isn't normal for her, because she's never desperate for attention. There was a day when we went to the theatre and when my girlfriend and I bought our tickets and were looking for her sister and her boyfriend, we saw them kissing by the booth and my girlfriend just started walking faster looking down and was a little shooken up for a minute then gave me a forced smile when I looked at her. Because he is her sister's boyfriend of course she would not let herself fall in love with him and would try to get over him, but because she met him before me I feel like I'm her second choice, despite the fact that she loves me more than anything. I want to ask her but I'm not sure if she would be hurt and think that I don't trust her. Please give me some advice.