Worried about relationship with fiance'
Hello, I'm new here and I don't have anyone to turn to with my worries. I've been going out with this guy for 4 years. He's been wonderful to me and being a sweet guy, until his sudden passion for religion.
He now wants to become a preacher and is now working on a degree on it. Now, this isn't a horrible thing itself, but I've told him before that I'm not a religious person and never will be. It's now a constant battle with him trying to force me into the religious scene, even though I'm uncomfortable with it and the people it usually attracts.
He no longer listens to my advice, probably because I'm not religious and a "heathen" (actually called me that). I can't stand to have sex with him anymore because he told me that that is a basis for a good relationship and expects it everyday even when I'm tired and if I don't, he becomes (sorry for the word) pissy. I'm thinking about breaking off the engagement with him, but I don't know if I'm wrong about the whole ideal. I just really do not want to be a preacher's wife. :(