My girlfriend wants to leave me.. says I'm too sensitive.please help.
Hi,its been 2 days since I have been reading posts like mine in this forum and believe me,I'm so very impressed and glad that there are so many people who are willing to help and share their ideas to improve either someone's relationship or to console the lost broken hearted person.so before I go and jot down my post,I thank you one and all for all the efforts you have put in this forum with an ambition to help sumone by expecting nothing in return.I really appreciate.
Well this is my first post.so here it is.lookin forward for your help and support..
I have a girlfriend and our love is a long distance relationship.I have heard several times and read numerous times that LDR doesn't work most of the times.. but I put us in that very few category where it works bcoz what we both believed was ::: to run and maintain a relationship all we need is true love,commitement,trust and understanding.whether its LDR or any kind of love.
We started our relationship 5 months back and everything was going so very smoothly.oh yeah sorry.. both of us are 26 yrs of age... well everything was perfect and we used to write lovey dovey notes in our blogs or public domain lyk myspace... she haD MY PICTURES IN HER social networking site and I had hers.we talks everyday on phone,we chat on Yahoo and I even talk to her parents as well.they llike me too.I know its been 5 months.. still everything was perfect... ya forgot to mention, she have a son from her ex... but trust me,I love him a lot and I feel for him as my own son.I shed tears of joy when I see him smiling and cry when I see him sad.u might not believe but that's the fact.
She talks to my mom,my siblings and my friends over the phone... but we are continents apart though we are frm same nationality and share same religion(thats not important).
But lately,say about a month back,things started changing slowly.our skyping through cam reduced to a great extent bcoz she doesn't want it,we chat bt it wasn't as pleasing as before from her end,we talk over the fone but sumhow she is most of the tym speechless and gets angry with me very often.and she started seeing mistakes in me though I have been the same right frm the beginning.
And few days back she asked me to kindly remove her pictures from my public domain page along with her comments saying those are our personal feelings and no need of displaying it to the world... now 2 things striked my mind:
1.. I agreed with what she said because that way, we are inviting bad omens frm people as they talk lot about us through our page.
2.. I felt she is trying to hide my identity thinking in case she falls into another relationship,,
Siltl I agreed and did what she requested... and 2 days back she wanted to end our relationship... and the reason was very funny:here it is..
We chatted after she came frm work.. we do everytym... and she wanted to sleep... but after about 15 minutes I ended up calling her though I know she said she will sleep... I cald because whole day she haven't said I love you to me and I was sad about it.maybe I sound kiddish here.so I cald her ad that fumed her so badly saying she wants to end this relationship because I don't understand her lyf,, I don't respect her tym,, says I'm too sensitive,, I agree I'm sensitive by nature bt I hardly showed my sensitive part to her because I know what kind of person she is... I apologized and told her the reason for my cal,she said BS.and I love you and wantd to end it.
I asked her to gimme opne last chance to prove myself and told her it was my selfishness that made me call her and sumtyms myt have irritated her before also... I told her to let me prove that I've changed and won't be selfish again.she doesn't want it.and says I can't say anything ryt now.im worried about us... at the same tym I'm worried about her son because he is calling me Daddy already and he loves me a lot.recetly I met him and we had wonderful tym.wen I left frm his school,he cried his heart out saying daddy I will miss u.we are both attached to each other deeply.. and if something happens to me and my galfrn,I will be very sad for her son...
Please help... wat should I do... I don't think I've been bad enuff to deserve a breakup.. but stl maybe I've been wronng on my part as well.im ready to do anything or follow anything to mend my selfishness and narrow minded part if there was any frm my end.
So any of your helps or ideas will be deep appreciated and sorry foor the long post.. thanks for your patience in reading it...