At the end of my rope, advice please!
I have been married for 5 yrs. I have always had feelings for my ex that never seemed to go away. We had a really bad break up. He dumped me with no reason, and I never seemed to "get over it". We talked onces right after, but never talked about our relationship. Skip forward years later and we are both married to other people. I'm not thinking about an affair, I would never want to rip my family appart. However, I think I made a mistake marrying my husband while still having unresolved feelings for another man. If it was going to end, I just needed some closure. I've always wanted to tell my ex how much I loved him and how he hurt me. I feel that holding these feelings in prevents me from having the kind of intamacy with my husband that I should have. So... after saying all of that... my question is... Should I contact my ex with a letter or email, or meet him in person and tell him or just to get this off my chest? Or should I somehow just let it go? And how can I do that? Seems like I've done everything to get over these feelings. Thanks.