Met a girl at a club in vegas, we danced and had fun, got her number txted her after 3 days she said she has a BF and to not text her again... should I still text her? Still hoping we could meet up and become friends what should I do?

Hi, eli_09!

She's stated that she has a boyfriend and not to text her again. That sounds like a pretty clear message to me!

Thanks!

Why did she give you her number? Maybe there was a buzz involved..

Delete her info. She has a boyfriend. Possibly with a temper.

There are more girls you know.

What goes on in Vegas, stays in Vegas. Leave her there.

Good luck.

Yeah much. She said she has a boyfriend so do not text her again. Good chance he was sitting there when you text her in the first place and is now piping mad. Don't text again or he may find your number and cause you a world of issues.

Besides, she said leave me alone basically. Vegas might not be your best venue for girl patrol.

You had a great one night, now back to reality.

Seems pretty clear that she wants to be left alone, so respect her wishes. Don't go forcing yourself onto her.

Don't bother her at all. Maybe she'd had too much to drink when she gave out her number. Whatever the reason, she's made it clear that she isn't interested.

Evidently she just wanted a one-night stand and wants what happened in Vegas to stay in Vegas.

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Originally Posted by eli_09

met a girl at a club in vegas, we danced and had fun, got her number txted her after 3 days she said she has a BF and to not txt her again....should i still txt her? still hoping we could meet up and become friends what should i do?

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Do exactly what she told you to do. Don't text her again.

She has either changed her mind or she does have a boyfriend.

You may text back one more time saying you were sorry to have bothered her. ( that is it) or best, just lose her number and have a fond memory of that one night

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Originally Posted by eli_09

she said she has a BF and to not txt her again....should i still txt her?

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She already gave you your answer!!

Now if you decide to text her again I don't like your chances of getting anything back so why waste your time?? She's probably already deleted your number.

Do nothing. She told you not to text so don't, no matter her reasons she doesn't want to be in contact with you.

What I would like to know is WHY you would even post such a question? The message was very clear. STOP! So why would you even consider going against her express instructions?

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Originally Posted by ScottGem

What I would like to know is WHY you would even post such a question? The message was very clear. STOP! so why would you even consider going against her express instructions?

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Some people do not take "NO" for an answer. It means nothing to them. They want to have their way. Probably because they are used to getting their way after someone says no.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Some people do not take "NO" for an answer. It means nothing to them. They want to have their way. Probably because they are used to getting their way after someone says no.

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Very true, but I think the OP needed a wake up call that asking the question in the first place was wrong. If, he is one of those people like you described, then he needs to wake up and learn that life does not revolve around what he wants.

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Originally Posted by ScottGem

Very true, but I think the OP needed a wake up call that asking the question in the first place was wrong. If, he is one of those people like you described, then he needs to wake up and learn that life does not revolve around what he wants.

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This is true! Given the response she gave him, I'm also wondering why he felt the need to ask the question. It's like he is asking "can I ignore her answer and do what I want?"

When you feed a skinny little hungry puppy, he'll come back for another bite.

He got a little sugar, and wanted a second helping.