I own my primary residence and if I sell it, the proceeds would cover the 1st and 2nd mortgages and closing costs - I wouldn't receive any funds at closing. So my house is not 'upside down' but it isn't 'right-side up' either. Foreclosure is NOT imminent.
I want to sell this home a buy a smaller, cheaper one with more affordable payments. Would I qualify for a 401k hardship withdrawal to buy a principal residence - I would use the funds to make the down-payment and cover other closing costs? My company's administrator thinks this wouldn't count as a 'principal residence' since I currently own my home - even though I would be selling my current home (the purchase of the new home would be contingent on selling the current home).
What if I sold my current home first, and then bought the other home? If that works, how much time has to elapse before I can buy the other home using 401k hardship withdrawal funds?