My sister has moved in with mother with diagnosed dementia and is up to no good
My sister has moved in with mom who is failing in health. She has health care directive and power of attorney. She got mom to put her on her bank accounts. She has put in new carpet, new stove, will put in new roof, get house painted new windows, My mother although not with disease has been placed on morphine. And taken off her medication. When I asked her doctor why, I was told that my sister has health care directive and they cannot answer any questions. I find this odd that my mother is now on morphine and not being given her heart medication or her blood pressure medication. Now I find that mom removed her from the home under the guise of taking her to lunch. Found out she took mom to a notary to sign a form which gives the house to her and gives her power over the will. The will was written up in 2007 giving all 3 of us siblings the rest of the assetts and to sell the home and divide things up. My sister has been lying to me telling me all will be fair, while behind my back she has changed everything. My poor mother was diagnosed with dementia last year. How can this be fair? I was told that I am not to call 911 for mom, she has even told me that she thinks mom had a stroke. But why then was she not hospitalized. She has had hospice to the house, but my mother is old and now not walking. She has gone down rapidly. Why the morphine, why stop the meds? Why not be allowed to call 911. And with all this she has had mom sign over everything to her? She is very very controlling and pushy and will talk mom into anything. I feel helpless to help mom. I am not surprised she is doing this all the while telling me not to make waves, "to be calm when mom passes" as she will be fair. Its not her will. I asked mom about it as I saw the amendments my sister made, she does not know that I have seen them yet. Mom said she does not remember even signing them. Help please, I am sick about all of this
